"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oh my god! weirdest situation afc girl

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Jesus! This is so WEIRD!
This was my first dates. Some days ago this girl met me on the internet and she is totally AFC in me. She is trying to - hold on - convince me to be with her! At the dates (2 dates thus far) she was just talking about herself and she didn't seem to be interested in ME at all. We was at her place, dussins of people were talking on msn with her and they all said "are you with that guy now?". And she said to me that her friends told her that I would be stupid if I don't take this girl as GF, etc. She is about 7/10 and I am probably there to or higher. She was nice. So yesterday when I said that I should go home and study (at about 21.30) she kissed me on the cheek and things blablabla. Now, she said to me over msn that she had a surprise and "if she knew men right, i would like it very very much".

The thing is - I don't know if I really want to lose my virginity with this girl. I don't like her that much :S

So I don't know what to do, I wish I could go to another planet and just don't give a sh!t about it.

I really need help. Please post me your suggestions and what a real DJ would do.
 

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send her over

no seriously, if you are unsure about how far you want to go, just test it and let her know, you only want to try out and will not go, where you dont REALLY want to go. Its your right, like its her right, to reject anything that does not feel perfect. You dont need to prove your masculinity.
 
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You'd probably come to realize that a v card doesn't relaly mean much, that's my opinions.

also, you know as they say, once you get some it just all seems easier, so this could be the start of a lot more lays.

also people say that the first time you have sex will be awkward for you and her, so why not use this as an opportunity to "practice" so when you find someone you know better, you won't be looking for which hole to put it in.

but then again, what do i know, i still have my v card.
just go with what you want, if you feel like doing it, then do it, if not then don't.
 
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