okay as you may all know, well i probably doubt it since not many of you bothered to help me out in the thread, dunno why? well i met this chick at a party, and later on me and a friend drove her and her friend to the mountains, on the way we were makin out like mad, but she didnt let me touch her. My friends date fell asleep on him lol. so he was watchin us back on and off lol. anyways..
Okay i think i might of screwed up ALOT, i was always makin her laugh, i was sweet sometimes, sometimes i was a jerk, mean, sometimes i was like i didnt care about her (like i suggested we played spin the bottle and she asked me what would happen if it landed on her friend and i stuck my toung out like i would make out with her =\)
Ok so anyways we go on another date, NOT so great, we didnt do crap til lthe end, i got a kiss at the end a peck on the lips, then she pranced off cus it was freezing outside and her parents were pissed off like hell at her.
I called her today asked her if sehe wanted to go see the movies with me and my friend this weekend. she said she couldnt cus she was busy this weekend both friday and saturday, i didnt feel like asking about sunday dunno why? (maybe it seems needy??) well anyways, i found out her friend doesnt like my friend. but i dunno about her.. well i called her baby lol, she didnt really mind i, and then i said what are you doing?? and shes like "talking to my bf", and i idnt kno if she was sayin that to me or her friend, but i didnt ask. i jsut acted as if i was her bf and confident and said yeh i know.. but anyways.. fck need to get to the point. i dunno WHY.. but im getting a HUGE crush oni this girl... at first i was all good, but then now calling ehr on the phone makes me want to take a crap (anxiety).. but anyways, after i asked about this weekend, we were talkin o nthe cell it was 8:30, she told me to call her later at 9 or 10 (cus we were running on minutes), im like **** that, ill call you when ur not so busy. (I read it earlier today on anti-dumps article. lol) and i hung the phone up. she doesnt have my # yet cus i barely just moved into my new apartment today
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but anyways i really like this girl and i want to make her my gf.. do i just call her and straight up tell her how i feel and i want to be with her or how do i do it ? ive never asked a girl out in my life. ive only had one girl friend in my life.... help me out guys plz i dont wanna screw this up the wrong way like afcs would u know? thanks!!!
but yeah im seriously afraid of rejection.. i dunno if its weird to ask her out. i mean, im not use to this whole thing of "hooking up and nothing more"... we made out, to me that would make us automatically bf and gf but i just recently got into the party scene and i dont like that idea and if this is what it just was then i guess ill have to accept it.. but yeah is it weird to ask her out even if we just hung out only twice?? a part of me wants to just get it over with and if shes not inetersted not waste my time and then move on, but then again , what if i need to build more attraction and not just be so pushy u know? i wanna do this right without getting rejected.. cus if she does ill be so speechless dunno what i would say lol... but i dunno, i would know if i had a chance judging by her like if she was crazy about me i could tell and know for sure if i had a chance but to be honest i really dont know.. cus she doesnt show it... maybe its cus ive been sending her like a million mixed signals cus i have... and i think i made a mistake by doin that..
btw ill figure ill write a little table of what happened.
Saturday - met at a party, danced, they left, we picked them up at their house, i hooked up with her.
Sunday - made plans for another date but the btch blew us off.
monday - we hung out and the entire date we were basically crusiing around it was so gay, so i didnt have a shot at getting close to her again cus she sat in the front with my friend and his date sat in the back with me i dunno why lol. but i got a kiss at the end cus i was going all or nothing and i didnt want it to end that way.
Wednesday - i called her to set up plans but failed i guess...
ok so now , i dont wanna give her too much attention and mess up, so when should the next time i call her be???
Okay i think i might of screwed up ALOT, i was always makin her laugh, i was sweet sometimes, sometimes i was a jerk, mean, sometimes i was like i didnt care about her (like i suggested we played spin the bottle and she asked me what would happen if it landed on her friend and i stuck my toung out like i would make out with her =\)
Ok so anyways we go on another date, NOT so great, we didnt do crap til lthe end, i got a kiss at the end a peck on the lips, then she pranced off cus it was freezing outside and her parents were pissed off like hell at her.
I called her today asked her if sehe wanted to go see the movies with me and my friend this weekend. she said she couldnt cus she was busy this weekend both friday and saturday, i didnt feel like asking about sunday dunno why? (maybe it seems needy??) well anyways, i found out her friend doesnt like my friend. but i dunno about her.. well i called her baby lol, she didnt really mind i, and then i said what are you doing?? and shes like "talking to my bf", and i idnt kno if she was sayin that to me or her friend, but i didnt ask. i jsut acted as if i was her bf and confident and said yeh i know.. but anyways.. fck need to get to the point. i dunno WHY.. but im getting a HUGE crush oni this girl... at first i was all good, but then now calling ehr on the phone makes me want to take a crap (anxiety).. but anyways, after i asked about this weekend, we were talkin o nthe cell it was 8:30, she told me to call her later at 9 or 10 (cus we were running on minutes), im like **** that, ill call you when ur not so busy. (I read it earlier today on anti-dumps article. lol) and i hung the phone up. she doesnt have my # yet cus i barely just moved into my new apartment today
.but anyways i really like this girl and i want to make her my gf.. do i just call her and straight up tell her how i feel and i want to be with her or how do i do it ? ive never asked a girl out in my life. ive only had one girl friend in my life.... help me out guys plz i dont wanna screw this up the wrong way like afcs would u know? thanks!!!
but yeah im seriously afraid of rejection.. i dunno if its weird to ask her out. i mean, im not use to this whole thing of "hooking up and nothing more"... we made out, to me that would make us automatically bf and gf but i just recently got into the party scene and i dont like that idea and if this is what it just was then i guess ill have to accept it.. but yeah is it weird to ask her out even if we just hung out only twice?? a part of me wants to just get it over with and if shes not inetersted not waste my time and then move on, but then again , what if i need to build more attraction and not just be so pushy u know? i wanna do this right without getting rejected.. cus if she does ill be so speechless dunno what i would say lol... but i dunno, i would know if i had a chance judging by her like if she was crazy about me i could tell and know for sure if i had a chance but to be honest i really dont know.. cus she doesnt show it... maybe its cus ive been sending her like a million mixed signals cus i have... and i think i made a mistake by doin that..
btw ill figure ill write a little table of what happened.
Saturday - met at a party, danced, they left, we picked them up at their house, i hooked up with her.
Sunday - made plans for another date but the btch blew us off.
monday - we hung out and the entire date we were basically crusiing around it was so gay, so i didnt have a shot at getting close to her again cus she sat in the front with my friend and his date sat in the back with me i dunno why lol. but i got a kiss at the end cus i was going all or nothing and i didnt want it to end that way.
Wednesday - i called her to set up plans but failed i guess...
ok so now , i dont wanna give her too much attention and mess up, so when should the next time i call her be???