Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol, hey he hangs with royalty too, show some respect, don't you know who he thinks he is?chinwaggler said:this guy... he's just finished a masters but he's criticising someone who's 23? how long did it take him to get a degree...
he talks about getting onto club lists but he got kicked out by a fat bartender
he talks about people with 5 body guards.... who go to.... mcdonalds... wow they must be rich....
he talks about giving this girl no attention... but he freaked when she wanted to kiss someone, yelled at her when she did, text her after, text her again, called her, then stalked her facebook
the fact is you are giving the woman all she wants when you should have never gotten into her in the first place
if you are so successful, go spend your moneye and enjoy yourself instead of telling people on a website why you are such a loser
jigga pleaze!!!!:crazy:jigga23 said:uh i got the AW by not giving her attention. you can only go so long without giving the proper attentin. motherfvcker you dont know me. insecure people need reassurance strictly from other people and cant find it with in themselves to be reassured idiot. AWs need other people to feel good. I dont i know my value and i will let it be known cause its all true. thats insecure genius. People ask so i tell cause i can back it up. its when you cant back it up then theres a problem. everything i said is true. i like to throw sh1t in peoples face when they talk sh1t like yourself to make your stupid azz stfu.
You should really ask for your money back, because any accredited institution has failed in educating you.jigga23 said:haha yea dude yea i never hung out with royal family members whne i lived overseas so impossible. Never rolled around with the son of the us ambassdor and the us ambassador himself. stfu. yea chinwaggler US ambassadors are not allowed to go to mcdonalds. hahah so dumb. gurantee he has more loot thant you and your family. once again you dont know me so stfu. Would you ever have the chance to meeting a president? dont think so. i do and thats the difference between me and you chump. read that sh1t chinwaggler. i was making a joke about using his VIP contacts to get on aclub list idiot. read its easy.im fvckin 25 and have 2 degrees jackazz
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Man, you are so articulate. I really feel as if I am basking in the aura of transcendental greatness right now.Would you ever have the chance to meeting a president?
Hey Jigga, with all your presidential connections can you tell me, is George Bush the Lizard KIng?Telos said:Jigga, I'll just reiterate once again: You sound like an insecure chump and a class A d*ckhead.
By the way everyone, I think I know the reason he needed an armed humvee to hit up McDonald's. I bet he was rolling with the Burger King himself.
jigga23 said:telos you are the f*g that called me out b1tch. what are u some super nice guy and a philanthropist? stfu. how many degress u got mr articulate? your burger king joke is so genius are you going to be able to get me in contact with all your VIP contacts so I can skip the line at the club and pay no cover? haha. please dude. you guys are humble and im not so what live with it. just cause you cant be as c0cky, confident and self assured doesnt mean you gotta hate. rhoto youre a little humble pvssy and dont have the balls to flaunt sh1t cause you got nothing to flaunt. youre probalby some average joe with no unique life experiences and just average looking if that and a fat azz or a skinny pvssy. bet u just get the average looking girls at best. guranteed ive been with way hotter pvssy than you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.