"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh lordy, how did I fvck this one up...

Igetit!

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Brighty said:
To pursue her and see where this goes, whether it be a summer fling or a relationship. I sort of see her as relationship material.
Cool. There's nothing wrong with this. The only problem is you're going about it the wrong way.

And I'm pretty sure she has an idea of what my intentions are...,
Being "pretty sure" ain't gonna get it.
You gotta KNOW FOR SURE she knows what it is you want from her.

I think that everybody here has different ways of doing the same thing.

You already know you have to be confident/aggressive/be a man. And here,we have many,many ways of demonstrating these things.

There's no standard,cookie cutter way of doing this. I can only share with you what has worked for me.

Click on my name and find the last thread I created. It's a field report where I gave an account of an interaction with the girl I happen to be dating right now. Take a look at it. When I said that she needs to know what your intentions are,that's(my thread) what I meant.

Don't worry,it isn't 4 or 5 pages long. It's only one.
I also gave a breakdown of what I did,but more importantly,why I did it.

Look at it and tell me what you think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE EVER IN YOUR LIFE ESPECIALLY WOMEN
i know 1 thing for sure is that u o.d.'ed on textinG her...THATS JUS TO MUCH TEXTING
AND OMG HOW ARE U EVER GONNA LIVE CUZ SHE DIDNT TEXT U BACK..
DONT READ TOO MUCH INTO THING LIKE TEXTIN AND SH!T LIKE THAT,,THATS SMALL SH!T...

-IF SHES ****IN U,,,,THEN U CLEAR...
 
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