"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh lord, i think i am an AFC!!!!

ThreeStorms

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You are the perfect man for the DJ bible. Good looking -> the raw material is there, but totally clueless about women, yet willing to lean. I bet you will very soon praise the lord that you found this site.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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salsipuedes

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I made a list of all the women i have dated, theres two types of women, one is the type that i really like, the other the so so women, i was amazed when i started to separate the groups, it seems i treated the so so women like friends, i stood my ground, played hard to get, and i had them eating out of my hand, they where also at some point, dumped by me. But when it comes to the women i really like, i treated them like gold, was always there for them, and guess what? they lost interest in me.

The only exception to the rule was a superhot girl i met 15 days before i was going to leave town, she showed some interest, i ignored her, she kept following me, and i decide to talk to her and make it very clear there was no point because i was going to leave, so guess what? she wanted me badly, and that turned out to be a 3 year relationship, the best one i had, and during all that time i always kept the feeling alive that the relationship would end anytime.
 
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