Oh lord, i think i am an AFC!!!!

[salsipuedes]

****, i have been reading the board and i think i am an AFC, hear me out and let me know what you think, i am about 23, single, i am not a bad looking guy, work out, always get stared at in the gym and at other places, but ever since i can remember, i always get shot down by women i find atractive, and i have gotten used to having so-so girlfriends that i really don't like that much, this is the usual way my dates go:

1.-I get aproached by a hot chick, she seems really into me, and obviously asks for a date.

2.-I agree, we set up a date and all is fine, she calls me, shes into it, all is great.

3.-We go on a date, and bam!!! her interest level goes down like a sack of bricks, by the second date i am already noticing shes dissapointed.

4.-By the 4th date shes just not interested anymore, and i am going nuts trying to figure out what to do.


Obviously, i am good looking enough to atract the women, but once they spend time with me, it all goes down south, i am usually very quiet, and respectful, and i am always in search of a romantic relationship, i guess i am clueless about what women want, i mean, i want a long term relationship, but that wont happen if women are turned off right from the start.

Help guys!!!!!

 

[salsipuedes]

Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
:crackup:

Well thats nice, i was hoping more on some advice.

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Sounds like you're a boring guy. Learn to be more interesting. Don't talk about boring generic topics on dates, don't do dinner and movie, don't be the one who pays, etc. etc.

 

[brenbaus]

dude, read the bible and keep up with current events and things you find interesting, espicially if its something most guys dont do, the chicks will love it because it is new and exciting to them(even if you do it everyday)

 

[Smooth Player 056]

solution: 1 cup human urine
2 tbs. ass hair
1 condom

Place all into condom.....slap your face with it

 

[Austizzle]

Definitely take a look at the DJ bible! You need to figure a way to stop being quiet. I'm not saying go out and be an obnoxious fvck, but you have to use some c&f (****y and funny) on her!

 

[Black_Italian]

Take a look at DJ bible and some of David DeAngelos stuff.

Your respectful and romantic. In movies this works great. In reality it doesn't.

Ninja out

 

[nishbuk]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Take a look at DJ bible and some of David DeAngelos stuff.

Your respectful and romantic. In movies this works great. In reality it doesn't.

Ninja out

Quoted For Truth...

 

[italostud]

Originally posted by nishbuk
Quoted For Truth...

Word. Italiano nero is right on the money.

Here's the new solution, modified from Smooth Player's.

2 ts Black italian's sperm
1 handfull of Black italians asshair.

Floss with the hair, then gargle with sperm.

 

[Black_Italian]

thanks .....i think lol

Ninja out

 

[salsipuedes]

I am working on it guys, i am currently going to therapy, my mom left me with my grandparents when i was 3, and he beat me for over a year, i dont remember **** but that obviously had an effect on me, i am too worried about female rejection, the thing here is, i know whats wrong and i want to fix it, one thing i am doing is going to therapy, and the other is learning the ways of a DJ, its not goin to be easy, but i figure hey, i am not bad looking, i am smart, i have a cool career, and all i am lacking is some guidance, thanks to all the guys that actually provided a decent awnser, to the rest, k- for you guys.

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

No offense but we don't really care about your deep seeded emotional problems or childhood issues.

To answer your questions just dont be so boring, read the bible and USE it, get some of David DeAngelos stuff and USE IT. Think of interesting conversation topics that arent common and use them. You should never have to resort to talking about school, work, family, etc.

Unless of course what you do is so awesome that she will wanna hear it. And let me make one thing clear about that, make sure its something that fascinates other people not just you. You may be proud of your work and think you have an awesome job, but if your job isn't glamerous like movie star, dancer, DJ, talent scout of some sort, or atheletic, she will not wanna hear it.

I have a cool job, I work at Geek Squad fixing computers, I think its the most awesome job I can get at the moment and I love doing it, but women won't be impressed about how much I make (NEVER talk about that!) or how cool fixing comptuers is because its a boring topic to begin with.

So if you have a career thats worth talking about like one of the ones mentioned above, you can try to talk about it if you do it in an interesting way. Usually its a good idea to describe what you do BEFORE you tell her what you do, so that it has a story-telling element to it. If you just say "i'm a _position title here_, which means I get to do this..." thats boring.

Say something like "well you know how sometimes people do this or that with their computers? well I make sure that never happens to anyone I deal with! I just...."

start it off like that, insert something funny into it, and generally give it a story telling feel to it. Thats how to make talking about work INTERESTING.

Like I said tho, be careful and never say how much you make. Even if she asks. Women can determine social status based on salary, as do most people, so if you dont make a lot you convey low status, if you do make a lot you and you make it sound a certain way you could come off as bragging. Its just a touchy thing, dont go there.

 

[salsipuedes]

Well i am a chef, and a darn good one.

 

[Brainman]

Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt


I have a cool job, I work at Geek Squad fixing computers, I think its the most awesome job I can get at the moment and I love doing it, but women won't be impressed about how much I make (NEVER talk about that!) or how cool fixing comptuers is because its a boring topic to begin with.

The card of the guy who fixed my computer fell out of my wallet, while I was giving a girl a ride to her car. She said, in a sultry voice, "I'd suck his ****. Really, I'm just horrible with computers."

Anyway,
-BM

 

[blinkwatt]

connect with her,conversational wise and the rest will fall into place.smile,eye contact,kino(helps EVERYTHING).

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Just goes to show you that it will take more than looks to get the job done. For guys like you, who get approached by hot chicks, it all depends on how horny they are. As mentioned before, you are killing the attraction with these chicks.

You need to get to work on yourself, PRONTO!

You are an AFC, and you need to stop trying to impress them by doing nice things for them. Let them prove themselves worthy to you first, before going out of your way to be very nice to them.

Get David D.'s stuff. I recommend the e-book, which will benefit clueless guys like you the most, then move immediately to the advanced series, wich will make you realize all the things you've been doing wrong all this time, maybe for the past few years.

 

[Sasha]

I'd say you need to read read read and then practice practice practice!


Sasha

 

[Don Juanabbe]

You should be doing action dates where you can let loose, joke around and kino her, that is the sh*t. Even a night at a pub and a game of darts and pool will work.

 

[I'm Joe Dirt]

Minature golf is also a good idea if you are 1/2 decent at it. You can really have some fun with it. Anything where you have to be active is good, because that has fun built into the activity, so you don't have to rely on yourself to entertain her.

 

[picard]

what the heck is AFC? I am not familiar with the term?? sorry.