Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Oh Jolly Good Time! A ONEitis thread!

AlexKaiser

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So there's this girl. The one that has the perfect body and face that just drives you crazy. However turns out, the girl is **** in the mental department, and I already struck out with her because I approached her back when I was beta. Back when I was the bluest pill in the bottle.

So I moved on!

...or at least I thought I did.

She has a very common girl name, and I catch myself turning my head at every blonde girl that comes my way that even resembles her. I catch myself fantasizing about her sexually. Friends talk about the horrible selfish dumb **** she did when she was part of our lives. Her existence has made an impact on me to the point where I don't think just forgetting her is an option.

But, I do NOT want the idealized image of her to have any affect on me anymore. There are more beautiful, less lazy, less damaged girls out there, even in this small town, and I want to cleanse my mind of this girl and move on.

What tips do you guys have to get over this? Any good guides or practices you've used to cleanse your mind of unforgettable girls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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Picture her in your mind all fat and nasty. Which is probably how she'll end up, anyway.

IWO, project her inside onto her outside.



Most of these attractive girls are Trojan horses. At first it seems nice, then the sh!t hits the fan!
 
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Yes, cut off any and all ties to her and anyone who knows her walk away. Move 3000 miles away start a new life with time she will fade away a year or so. And if she ever tries to contact you let's say 25 years later (lol) do not meet in person just say nice chatting let's do it again in another 25 years

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resilient

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I remember this oneitis I took to prom my senior year in high school. She was a few years younger. :rofl: It was terrible. I went out on dates with other girls during the years I was 18-23, but all I could think about was the one-itis. The almost shoulda woulda coulda... then... nothing happened, she got bored and started her fast and furious dating years. Bye-bye, oneitis.
 
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