"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Oh, good God. Look at this sh*t.

Thread starter cactus3178
Start date Aug 15, 2005

gmm567

Don Juan

Aug 17, 2005

My god....the chick digs you

This is how long term relationships start.

Needy? WTF! Yeah, she wants to share and care.

It may very well be true that 80% of chicks will treat you that way, but what about the 20% who don't? These are the keepers.
The other 80% are not healthy psychologically: they're the bone and throws!

God, I can't believe how ****ed up people are.

Geoff

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.