First, I stopped posting on DJF since I've been back together with my gf, then split again and have been out and about. She's gone for good this time (and don't say 'oh yeah right' - we've finally admitted that neither of each other actually love each other and we're only together for comfort) So...
Ready to laugh?
OK - Been out plenty and met lots of women. Many good looking women too & with the aid of DJB I've pulled a few, and I get calls from them asking me out.
Result.
Unfortunately I'm not v.happy with the majority of them. Nothing unique that just hits it off with me. Which is a pain really because some are really nice looking.
So I did my usual dating sites trawl and at some point a girl replied to one of my ads. We chatted a bit and I read her profile - she seemed nice - I have to admit, I paid close attention to the detail and she's admitted as much that she wants to meetup some time and we're getting along fantastically.
I'm really quite into her - we have the same interests, dislikes and there's a meeting of minds. Fair enough, if I was going to list her on an HB, she'd be a 4-5 out of 10. I'm really looking forward to meeting up with her.
So what's wrong? Some of the more astute of you will probably already have guessed.
She's a lesbian. :crackup:
's a cruel joke. But I'll take it like a man.
She's been out with men and had a bad experience with all of 'em, so I'm guessing this has added to her distrust etc. I'm pretty sure no game plan will work, but since I like the unobtainable, I guess there's no harm in trying. I'm perfectly aware that gay relationships aren't unnatural in the world and it could be that she's 100% lesbian and will remain 100% lesbian, otherwise I'm hoping she's 99% and that last 1% might allow me to slip in metaphorically speaking at least.
btw - for those who wish to know how I've got to this position in the first place, I've been using all the recently posted stuff on the main tutorial page regarding fate etc - works better than a charm!
So, any thoughts and comments? This has probably been posted before many, many times but to me, it's a new experience!
Ready to laugh?
OK - Been out plenty and met lots of women. Many good looking women too & with the aid of DJB I've pulled a few, and I get calls from them asking me out.
Result.
Unfortunately I'm not v.happy with the majority of them. Nothing unique that just hits it off with me. Which is a pain really because some are really nice looking.
So I did my usual dating sites trawl and at some point a girl replied to one of my ads. We chatted a bit and I read her profile - she seemed nice - I have to admit, I paid close attention to the detail and she's admitted as much that she wants to meetup some time and we're getting along fantastically.
I'm really quite into her - we have the same interests, dislikes and there's a meeting of minds. Fair enough, if I was going to list her on an HB, she'd be a 4-5 out of 10. I'm really looking forward to meeting up with her.
So what's wrong? Some of the more astute of you will probably already have guessed.
She's a lesbian. :crackup:
's a cruel joke. But I'll take it like a man.
She's been out with men and had a bad experience with all of 'em, so I'm guessing this has added to her distrust etc. I'm pretty sure no game plan will work, but since I like the unobtainable, I guess there's no harm in trying. I'm perfectly aware that gay relationships aren't unnatural in the world and it could be that she's 100% lesbian and will remain 100% lesbian, otherwise I'm hoping she's 99% and that last 1% might allow me to slip in metaphorically speaking at least.
btw - for those who wish to know how I've got to this position in the first place, I've been using all the recently posted stuff on the main tutorial page regarding fate etc - works better than a charm!
So, any thoughts and comments? This has probably been posted before many, many times but to me, it's a new experience!
