"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oh crap girl starting to pull out the g word...

niceguy91

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soo there is this soph that rlly likes me, and i told her we could b fwb @ first. then she was like ohh lets take it slow, i want this to meen something, ...i wanna b your girlfriend...

wow, wow, wow what do i do? i dnt want her, i wanna b single. i kinda led her on so tht i could get sutff. she goes to my school n i c her like every day. how do i get out w. out hurting her or making it seem like i played her?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bling

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You're going to end up mopping around wishing you went out with her when she moves on.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Say you have some feelings for her but, don't want a relationship right now. Tell her straight up you would like to be friends with bennefits. Who cares if she declines your offer if you don't want to be bf gf with her.
 
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