Yes he certainly sounds like a chump but what kind of man are you for allowing this to happen...again, she tells you he cheats and you give her an out. I wouldn't participate in that level of disrespect. You are taking the women's side again, disrespecting a service man in HIS own house. Thats disgusting, I don't know how you can justify this to yourself?!? Yeah he has less game but so what? So we are entitled now to take from others with less game or a lower sex drive? He cheated on her in HK, I don't see how thats any of your business, why didn't she break up with him? Why hadn't she moved out? Was she was looking for a free ride? Why would you indulge a woman like this in her sick twisted world? Allowing a low quality woman to have her cake and eat it too...
Not only that, can you imagine if someone did this to you in your own home while you sat on the couch? I'm pretty sure you'd walk upstairs and put a bullet through both of them. If you look at it the way borroughs does then this woman was his property and you basically walked into his house and stole from him. To me that is home invasion and merits self defense.
Malice, I would be very slow to give you any sort of trust had you told me this IRL. Not that you care really but taking the moral high ground is much nicer than a quick roll in the hay with a dirty *****. You bring yourself and your reputation into disrepute, I would rather be the person that a man can trust to have his back. I don't know how you can look at yourself in the mirror... sorry dude, I'm not trying to make a personal attack here but I find that disgusting on so many levels. Why would you disrespect another man on a woman's order? I can understand if you are lamenting your old mistakes but to think this is some how a good thing, I dont get it. This seems like another level of white knightery, we all make mistakes in our 20s, I hope you consider this to be one of yours.