"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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O.k so i ask this girl out, she's from work(i know is advised against it).But we are always flirting' so i decided to take my chances. I was kind of nervous but this it how it wen down:
me: hey, do you work today(i already knew don't know why i ask)
she: yeah, so what's up?
me: i'm going to the movies today will you join me?
she: actually I'm doing the laundry, and I'm alone with my child(she's raisin' the baby of a cousin)
me : oh!. o.k, but no one will get home later(i wanted to know if she will be able to make it)
she: how did you get my home number
me::confused: the same way you get mine from the clipboard
she:i dont have your number i only call you from work
me::nervous: oh i see. OK I'll see tomorrow
she: o.k thanks for asking me out anyway
me: bye and then i hung up

At least i gather my guts and ask her (even doe in a kind of pathetic way).I think is better than to keep on wondering.

that was it now i need to get ready i'm going to the movies anyway
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude dont take it hard..
her last thing "thanks for asking me out anyway"
that could be a good sign..

you really shouldnt be giving such short notice...on the first date.
short notice is acceptable when you've been out 3 or 4 times..

shes taking care of someones kid and all the work etc..it may have and most probably is a legit reason why she couldnt go..

next time just ask her casually like 3 days in advance...
 
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Short notice is to be avoided when possible. Even after the first few dates some girls just won't go for short notice. They like to get ready, and some girls take a looong time to get ready (especially if there are things that slow that down like the presence of kids and such).

You usually shouldn't ask for same day get-together until you know the girl well enough to know that there is a good chance she'd be up for that.
 
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slickaz said:
dude dont take it hard..
her last thing "thanks for asking me out anyway"
that could be a good sign..

you really shouldnt be giving such short notice...on the first date.
short notice is acceptable when you've been out 3 or 4 times..

shes taking care of someones kid and all the work etc..it may have and most probably is a legit reason why she couldnt go..

next time just ask her casually like 3 days in advance...
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ok ill do that in the future
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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