"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh boy,this could be trouble...

blinkwatt

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So these girls come into my job a couple of weeks back. No biggie I get both their numbers and hang out with one of them. Kinoed it up, kissed one it was cool,not spectacular. I called the one I kissed up once to hang out again,but it was a no go. Well today(a week later) I check my Myspace and I have a message from the boyfriend of the chick I kissed, it read " why do you kiss other peoples girlfriendz"...now my course of action is to ignore the message. What else should I prepare for,and besides this chick made absolutely NO mention of a boyfriend. Any input would be appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Walking Anomaly

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Id say you have nothing to worry about...most guys are all talk.

I say you ignore the message unless he escalates and somehow gets your screen name and presses you about it. Then you know he's willing to go farther than other guys. Set him straight if he IMs you n stuff. Tell him he needs to be taking this shyt up wit his girl, not you...you didn't force anything.

If he persists then get ready for a fight, thats the worst case scenario ...chances are he probably won't do anything though.

~WA
 

timeforacatnap

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you justt need to be non reactive, civil and frank about it, you did nothing wrong, and the issue lies with the girl. thus for me , my response would be:

i dont kiss other ppls girlfriend, i kiss girls, if a girl has a boyfriend, then the responsibiliy is on her to let me know, if i kiss her without that knowledge, then i suspect there are other issues at hand. that being said, i apologise for your emotional unrest and wish youa nd your girl well.

if things get worse, report to the admin staff and get him banned.
 
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