Offline meeting, how do I pull it off?

[Shrub]

Hey Guys,

I generally find online dating fruitless and pretty boring, but I've 'met' a cool chick who seems to show a healthy IL with her long emails and eagerness to meet. We only emailed each other about 3 times, then I got her number and we talked on the phone. She was keen to meet, and actually asked me. We're going to meet up in the central city during the weekend, after she finishes work.

Ok so my question to you guys is, how do I get a kiss-close, f-close or, provided I like her, progression to 'dating' from this meeting. I know I gotta lead etc but I seriously want a basic 'plan'. I was thinking of taking her to a cafe, shock n' awe-ing her with great convo then walking her to my/her car and going for the kiss.

Usually these kinda situations end in a fizzle for me, so you guys gotta give me ideas to make it a bang.

 

[sapphire]

This is what I usually do and what got me laid that last two times, including an 8.5HB from Match.com on the first date.

Set up a date and ask her to meet you at your house at so and so time. Make sure that you look as good as possible. Dress nice and wear a nice cologne. JooP works really well for me as does Hugo Boss. Also make sure that your house/apt is clean especially the bathrooms.

When she comes to your house show her around a bit, sit down and offer her a beverage. DON'T MAKE ANY SEXUAL MOVES ON HER yet.

After about 10 minutes or so, after she is comfortable with you and you have established some personal rapport, take her out to a bar/club/restaurant for some drinks. At this point try to gage her interest in you. You should be able at this point to determine whether there is chemistry/attraction between the two of you.

Also be aware that some girls are naturally shy or are plain nervous. So if she does not talk much or appears that she is not interested it could just mean that she is shy or nervous. Use alot of kino and if she is not repulsed by you, then you are probably good to go.

After several hours, take her back to your house and offer her to go inside for a night cap or to watch a movie. If she agrees then you are almost good as gold. Any girl with a minimum of intelligence knows that when a guy invites a girl to his house at the end of a date, it is because he has sex on his mind.

It is at this point that you start making your move. Have her sit close to you and what not. Start caressing her and if she does not resist then gently plant one on her lips. And you can gradually escalate things until the two of you are fycking like porn stars.

This has worked for me quite well with online chicks and others I have met in the real world.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Originally posted by sapphire
This has worked for me quite well with online chicks and others I have met in the real world.

Yep. Good stuff. Sounds like what I do...except for cleaning the bathrooms.. I'm a pig.