"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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[OfficialDJB] Poll for making the Bible easier to navigate

Should the sections of the Bible be seperated into pages? (no reloading required)

  • Yes

    Votes: 9 75.0%

  • No

    Votes: 3 25.0%
  • Total voters
    12
  • Poll closed .
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Nicholas Hill

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This is a simple yes/no poll for a possible technical change to the Bible.

The question is above. Ordinarily, I would just go ahead, but seeing as this is a big change and would require JavaScript to run, I thought to ask first.

If I get the answer yes within three days, I'll go do it, else leave the Bible as is.

Nick
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Got nothing to loose...

Not a bad idea at all... i say go for it;)
 
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please consider adding a glossary of terms as well with relevant links.

AFC means american federation of chicanos or what?!

jin
 
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Excellent idea. I have added a glossary section with no entries in it yet, although I will add AFC.

I'll change it soon to make it appear in alphabetical order.

It's at the bottom of the page. Alternatively, click here:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/index.php?action=glossary#16

Nick
 
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go for it, i think its a great idea as i never loved the setup of the bible to begin with. Maybe add a table of contents and section it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't think some people understand what changes you want to implement. Can you describe it a little clearer?
 
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