"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Official WDYL (Where Do You Live?) Thread

mangotot

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Not everyone posts their location on their handle, so lets post it here.

I am currently residing in Birmingham, England, Europe.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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IBreatheSpears

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Brighton, England.

It's hipster-central here but a lot of the hipster girls are pretty cute, plus it's a very studenty town and I'm sure I've mentioned my penchant for foreign exchange students before.

How are the girls in Birmingham, btw? When I'm finished with my degree my plan is to move up north where it's cheaper, and save money for my eventual move to Germany.
 

mangotot

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IBreatheSpears said:
Brighton, England.

It's hipster-central here but a lot of the hipster girls are pretty cute, plus it's a very studenty town and I'm sure I've mentioned my penchant for foreign exchange students before.

How are the girls in Birmingham, btw? When I'm finished with my degree my plan is to move up north where it's cheaper, and save money for my eventual move to Germany.
Same as other parts of the UK. The East European immigrants are way more hotter then the locals.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ronaldo7

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Miami, Florida
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jair213 said:
Los Angeles California. Culver City.
Los Angeles, California. San Gabriel. Hey Jair we should grab a drink sometime and talk about our BPD ex's! Lol
 
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