"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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homi

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I read the game by neil strauss a couple times, and I realized although I do keep up on printed material, i need to see things in action to really internalize it..

I'm just wondering if you guys have any audio / video clips youd like to share.

some sites you can use to upload are

video.google.com
www.youtube.com

www.yousendit.com

I know some of you must have materials stashed away, so i'd really appreciate it if everyone shared some of their stuff, I know it'd be highly benefical to me , as well as many others in the DJ community.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The dvd's that helped me the most were the Mystery Method set. I recommend getting them all, there's so many little things that make more sense upon viewing. Like Peacocking!!! At least get his Venusian Arts Handbook, that raises your game infinitely!
 

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Here's a good one for those who not only need to get a visual on confidence in action, but how to take control of your life. Notice how his confidence just attracts people to him. Also notice the girl almost instantly mirrors his mood.

http://www.compfused.com/directlink/305/
 

homi

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anyone have some actual footage

i know its harder to share than just tips, but theres gotta be some nice video/audio from the field.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Question

I want to record my pickups and my Creative Muvo mp3 player didn't work so well in a loud bar. It overloaded the microphone, does anyone have any advice on that?

If I get a good way of recording, i will certainly be up for trading clips of pickup.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Get a lapel microphone.

Most good recorders have <mic> port for a microphone. Just go to the store and buy a little micrphone. Turn off the sensitive feature, or if that isn't an option provided buy an adaptor piece to lower the volume.

When you recode the recording make sure you set the volume to a higher level so the sound is congruent. I hate hearing recordings where it sounds like the person is a mile away or screaming into your ear.

Your mp3 player is probably set to(TOO?) sensitive. See if that works.

Best of luck. Any other questions don't hesitate, I don't mind doing the research...
 
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