check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
happy new year from the UK
happy new year from the UK
happy new year from the UK
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Official New Years Thread
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What up.. i figure since New Year is a big deal to a lot of people, there are going to be parties/crazy things happeneing.. so let's see what everyone is up to tonight.
I myself had been getting calls all day from people asking me what is going on.. right now i'm basically networking seeing who which parties are actually going to be good, and which are going to be 10 guys playing grab ass..
If everything goes to hell tonight, i think my friends and i will hit a popular night club.. make out with some drunk girls who want to be kissed when the bell rings..
How are you celebrating the coming of 2005? (holly **** im going to be 21.. time is indeed very fast!)
I myself had been getting calls all day from people asking me what is going on.. right now i'm basically networking seeing who which parties are actually going to be good, and which are going to be 10 guys playing grab ass..
If everything goes to hell tonight, i think my friends and i will hit a popular night club.. make out with some drunk girls who want to be kissed when the bell rings..
How are you celebrating the coming of 2005? (holly **** im going to be 21.. time is indeed very fast!)
"Old" highschool friends? Damn Vincent...you're just barely out of highschool. When you get MY age, that's when you call them "old".Originally posted by Vincent
Going to a party with some old highschool friends. Should be fun.
I'm bringing my camera, expect some pictures
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Hah! New Year passed 12 hours ago for me. We in Australia get to enjoy New Years eve 16 hours ahead of you Americans
It was pretty cool, I didn't actually bother with fireworks. Went for drinks with friends, then a dinner for 2 with my girlfriend. For some reason the booze fests aren't that appealing to me anymore.
It was pretty cool, I didn't actually bother with fireworks. Went for drinks with friends, then a dinner for 2 with my girlfriend. For some reason the booze fests aren't that appealing to me anymore.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
Happy F*cking New Years'!
CableLight
Master Don Juan
New Years - Like any other day, but celebratory. Why? Taxes, resolutions, and a guaranteed kiss at midnight.
Well 6 of us headed to a party at around 10. We got there, i see a lot of cute girls, but most of them a bit younger than me 16-18. Of course, you know what that means.. immature chicks and high school drama, although, it didnt get too bad.. had to break up a fight or two..
So that ball is going down...and i'm standing with another guy next to the TV. 4 hot attnetion *****s are standing nearby..as the ball goes down, they get closer to each other.. and when it finally hits, they all yell "woooppioee" and make out with each other... I look at the guy, look at the girls..say "Fvck this" and put my arms on 2 girls, saying "What's up ladies, happy new year".. Kiss first one on the lips, the rest on the cheeks. I dont know if cheecks count for new years, honestly i dont give a sh1t becuase i ended up kissing a lot of girls, so my New Year's was pretty fun.
P.S. We went to another party afterwards.. if you can even call it that. A house, 3 girls, 2 taken, 1 ugly. 6 guys.. all looking like they are the captains of the chess club... and the funniest part? Those guys thinking they want to beat our asses for not cleaning the plates after ourselves (the house was already trashed and the sink was overfloating with dishes)... Anyway.. here are 3 russian guys, who have little temperament for fukks who talk trash.. then a 7 foot guy who is bigger than anyone there. And a couple of more guys, including my best friend, who all work out a lot.
So a lot of talk happens...us asking what the hell they think is going to happen and them just hiding behind the girls trying to say "fukk off"... if we didnt leave there peacefully that night (i didnt want the cops to get involved) There would be 6 dorks laying in the pool of their own piss and blood.
Happy new years.
So that ball is going down...and i'm standing with another guy next to the TV. 4 hot attnetion *****s are standing nearby..as the ball goes down, they get closer to each other.. and when it finally hits, they all yell "woooppioee" and make out with each other... I look at the guy, look at the girls..say "Fvck this" and put my arms on 2 girls, saying "What's up ladies, happy new year".. Kiss first one on the lips, the rest on the cheeks. I dont know if cheecks count for new years, honestly i dont give a sh1t becuase i ended up kissing a lot of girls, so my New Year's was pretty fun.
P.S. We went to another party afterwards.. if you can even call it that. A house, 3 girls, 2 taken, 1 ugly. 6 guys.. all looking like they are the captains of the chess club... and the funniest part? Those guys thinking they want to beat our asses for not cleaning the plates after ourselves (the house was already trashed and the sink was overfloating with dishes)... Anyway.. here are 3 russian guys, who have little temperament for fukks who talk trash.. then a 7 foot guy who is bigger than anyone there. And a couple of more guys, including my best friend, who all work out a lot.
So a lot of talk happens...us asking what the hell they think is going to happen and them just hiding behind the girls trying to say "fukk off"... if we didnt leave there peacefully that night (i didnt want the cops to get involved) There would be 6 dorks laying in the pool of their own piss and blood.
Happy new years.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.