"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jayer said:
Nick nice!

Share the info.................. How did you get these girls?
1st bird: (Hb8)Added me cause I mentioned on my profile that I did karate n she did it too, she just messaged me saying she'd like to chat so I accepted her add.

Chatted to her once on MSN, got her number, met up with her for a drink, sat in the same bar for 5 hours chattin non-stop, just clicked really mate.

2nd bird: (Hb10)Funnily enough (this is sad) I read someone guide to MySpace on this site n just added about 10 birds from 5 miles n commented on there cutest pic just saying "nice smile".

The prettiest of the bunch replied n kept messagin me over Christmas while she was ill (I didn't reply to half of em), met up for a drink, no keeno, she spent the date moanin about her bastard ex, so I just planted a big kiss on her in the car n she was like "I WASN'T EXPECTING THAT!".

Lasted about a month cause I couldn't over MySpace girl 1, I'd kill to get back with her now cause she was gutted when I dumped her.

Edit: Here's me profile, don't use it much anymore, not for dating anyway, so add me if ya want

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=30522635
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice page man... I'm going to have to test out some of these myspace suggestions.

I am still debating on whether or not I should make a sepreate page for getting chicks or just use the same one I have.

Yours seems open and cool.
 

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Jayer said:
Nice page man... I'm going to have to test out some of these myspace suggestions.

I am still debating on whether or not I should make a sepreate page for getting chicks or just use the same one I have.

Yours seems open and cool.
Use the same one... dont make it harder for yourself buddy.... its really just about having fun and teasing the girls...

I have a very good Approach for a girl that looks banging and her Profile is Private...

HB10 had a default with her ass sticking out....

I message her SUBJECT: You know what....

BODY: I think of you when I see your default.... "An ASS" LMFAOO

She replies... OK (EXACTLY WHAT I WANTED)

ME: OK..?? ... You know Im sorry.. I thought you were a girl with a sense of humor... I guess I thought wrong... It was a pleasure meeting you :) Bye.

HER: I am... I amm funny, Im sorry If I came off *****y to you :-(.. whats going on, wasup?

AND THATS WHERE I START GAMING :)

Point is... If girls are being *****y to you... they will make it look (even if its not,, like its your fault)... HOWEVER... If you make it look like it was THEIR fault.. and showed yourself as a COOL (im not going to say NICE) Guy.... then her emotions will change toward you... and she will start opening up... plus will be careful about what she says...

Please dont over..use this if your going to do it..
 

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Slick I'm with you on everything.... but if too many girls become friends on your page... don't the other girls get suspicious that you are a myspace pimp? lol thats the only thing Im afraid of when using my real myspace...
 

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No..

They get the impression that... thats Your lifestyle... thats who you are because your a fun, interesting, good looking advenutrous guy that has lots of woman in his life... they would love to be with you....

Plus one account is a headache... login into 2 all the time.. your gonna go crazy....

And if you keep saying PIMP... thats what they want...

Not a guy that has alll guys on his page... plus why do you need to interact with your real friends on Myspace LOL.... Call them or IM

But w/e makes you happy you Know :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ER!C L!VE

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Slick101, you've come across as a troll with some of your posts, but this one seems legit. I'm curious now. I'm just going to ask some questions - I'm not attacking, you.

Are you making friends out of these girls you meet on myspace so you can use each other for social proof, or are you banging them silly?

If you're meeting them, how many have you met off there in the past 6 months? How many of those did you bang? What were their ages? What is your age?

Thanks in advance.
 

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Trust me bro, having tons of chicks on your page will only cause drama. I know first-hand from using myspace since 2005. If you're using your personal page to try to hook up with multiple girls consistently & simultaneously than I suggest making new profiles. But if they don't read your comments, then it's all good!
 

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Kind of plays into the whole hide your friends and comments and use div overlays which was discussed here. I guess I am stll waiting for some more feedback to decide.
 

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Jayer said:
Slick I'm with you on everything.... but if too many girls become friends on your page... don't the other girls get suspicious that you are a myspace pimp? lol thats the only thing Im afraid of when using my real myspace...
Yeah girls get suspicios, this can either work for you or against you, depending on the girl you're interested in.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I will admit that I have gotten lays strictly from meeting on myspace... But I don't really use it for that anymore..

I only have one profile and its legit... friends, family... girls i hit on, they all get the same thing.

I do try and keep my profile active and "social proofed" which can be hard at times because most my friends aren't into myspace at all.
So if anyone wants to add me up feel free, I consider anyone on this site worthy enough to be a friend.
Or help me out and I will help you out... :rockon:

http://www.myspace.com/rwolf83

or just let me know what you think about the page.
 

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Meh it shouldn't be hardwork, if it wasn't for myspace I'd have lost touch with about a third of my old school/college mates.
 

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Hey Randall Pink Floyd, you got laid off a myspace page that has chess on it? Now I believe anything is possible, well done.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bible_Belt said:
Hey Randall Pink Floyd, you got laid off a myspace page that has chess on it? Now I believe anything is possible, well done.

haha.... werd... well, being passionate about hobbies and creating your own unique life is attractive.
 

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Hey Jayer, not that you asked me, but fwiw my rating is about 1700 or so. The highest rated players I have beaten are about 1900-2000. I really admire players with 2000+ ratings. There is always someone better on the Internet.

BB hows the progress going with your law students?

I actually have one lined up. She just broke up with her long distance bf and is prime for the taking. I've been in Florida for a while, and she said she missed me. The ugly truth is that I have an std that has not quite cleared up yet, but is almost clear. I am going to ask for this girl's number after the weekend passes and shoot for a first date next week. I noticed that my ex has a new bf already, so now I feel like I should try to keep up. Ironically, the same rebound effect that I think is behind my ex replacing me so quickly will now work in my favor if I pursue the newly single girl.

Another thing I am noticing is that the receptiveness of myspace girls varies inversely with their boob size. I will message an A cup girl, a B cup, and a C cup. The C will ignore me, the B will reply once or twice and then ignore me, and the A is the flirty one. Flat girls have to work harder.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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