"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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***Official Late Night with Sodbuster Interview Thread***

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***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

Sodbuster, Please answer the below questions in a reply to this thread. Thanks

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

5) How many chicks have you slept with?

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

19) Favorite So Suave posters?

20) Thoughts on online dating?

21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?

24) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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[1] I came here after a Divorce. So, not sure I'll ever do THAT again... at least without a pre-nup... and before we go through the"prenups do't work" Mine will because I've structured my life to make it hard for ANYONE to sue me.

[2] I grew up on a farm...hence the name.

[3]The worst... I've heard so much BS, I can't pick that one. The best would be to read Anti-Dump's machine

[4] was on Mystery's site for a bit.

[5] maybe 20 ish. I don't care about a number. It's not my focus in life

[6] a friend of my gf at the time almost started a fight with 3 bikers for me one night... Best experience would be the birth of my sons

[7,9,11] I just don't give a d@mn, so it doesn't matter. I DO have tendency's of all 3 of the "dark Triad" personality traits.... nothing that interferes with functioning in society, but it's there. I figure if a woman isn't smart enough to know what I am and what I'm going to be...she isn't smart enough to be the mother of my children... been that way forever. Told my mom that at age 17.

[8] friend/former dancer who is Bi-polar with panic attacks wanted to come over after her shift. Several fugs and a few *****y personalities

[10] dated 2 in one night, slept with the second one. Don't do it anymore. WOMEN shouldn't feel like WORK

[12] whatever I feel like. From the ugliest 3 color Neon Bahama's shirt {so bad, it's GOOD} to black jeans with a purple shirt and leather sports coat

[13] need to get back in it after hunting season is over

[14] I do better in person with time to talk a bit. So, where ever THAT can happen. Don't let friends set me up, not interested in their girlfriends fat friend

[15]yep

[16] see #1

[17]all

[18] no

[19]anti-dump, Pook, jophil,Rollo, str8up[sp]just to mention a few. Most aren't here anymore, but I won't list current posters

[20] Pain in the ass, they can disqualify you before they see you or sleep with you

[21] needed , men NEED to start defending themselves from the Feminine BS flooding our culture

[22]probably buy copies for my son's

[23] When I was in my 20's I asked my grandpa "how do you understand women?" He said, "hell boy, you figure THAT out, tell ME"...after 60 years of marriage. Still working on it a bit, but working more on pleasing ME
 
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