"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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***Official Late Night with potato Interview Thread***

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Dear Mr.Spuds,

I have some questions for you.

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

What do you think about marriage?

Children?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

In your opinion does it get better in regards to chicks with age?

Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? If yes, do you see any difference between chicks in different countires?

Some people think sex first - relationship later, others say sex after you have formed some kind of bonding with the woman is more satisfying. What is your opinion on this?

What are your thoughts on the whole dating culture?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

Hope you answer,
Simpleman
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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potato

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What brought you to SS and how did you find the site? Someone was posting what I consider PUA BS on another site and I traced some of his ideas to this site.

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks? I think the best advice is that there are always more fish in the sea, metaphorically speaking.

How many chicks have you slept with? Not sure, for sure but I think that I've dated or otherwise hung out with (in a sexual/romantic way) about 200 women, yet have had intercourse with just a little over two dozen.

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not) I think that overall, my relationships with women, has been pretty good. It’s helped make me a happy man.

Dress style for going out to meet chicks? Depends. My preferred dress is casual pants, like Levis or Dockers, with a short sleeve button up shirt. In the summer I’ll wear shorts and a t-shirt.

What do you think about marriage? Tried it once, learned my lesson.

Children? A girl and a boy.

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it? Parts.

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline? No.

In your opinion does it get better in regards to chicks with age? From about 17 to 25 there were more women than I could handle. If I knew then what I know now; I would have been a monster. Oddly though, it seems that things got much better around the time I hit 40. But it was different. In my 40’s and into my 50’s women seem to treat me with more respect, express a greater appreciation for my company.

Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? If yes, do you see any difference between chicks in different countries? No, but I’ve dated a few women from other countries. There was one from Germany, one from Greece, one from Vietnam, and one from Honduras. In each case there was a bit of a language barrier that prevented us from having too much of a conversation, but the flirting, the eye games, the little smiles and all that worked pretty much the same as with American women.

Some people think sex first - relationship later, others say sex after you have formed some kind of bonding with the woman is more satisfying. What is your opinion on this? Depends on the woman, the situation. I don’t think there are any valid rules when it comes to this. Nonetheless, personally, I have never had sex with a woman with whom I didn’t feel an emotional bonding going on.

What are your thoughts on the whole dating culture? I’ll get back to you on that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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potato

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What are your thoughts on the whole dating culture? I’ll get back to you on that.
I had to think about this a bit because I like to think that I've risen above the fray. I've never gotten into going to clubs, on-line dating, or even approaching women for the purpose of asking them out. Whatever dating culture I do see; much of it seems kind of silly to me. Of the women that I carry on with they are mostly women that I encounter while just doing my normal things. I’m socially aware enough that I know which women like me. I’ll talk with them, flirt with them, but never come onto them, not really. It may be that I’m just a likable guy but I tend to easily develop “friendships” with women – some of them wives and girlfriends of friends and acquaintances. I tend to rely on natural attractions and when the time is right things happen. There have been women who I was “friends” with for 8, 9 years, the relationship between us simmering just below the surface. Then suddenly we find ourselves together one day and things happen.

This may seem to be an inefficient way to go about getting women until one realizes that I have a lot of female “friends” lasting years, overlapping my relationships with other women.
 
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