"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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***Official Late Night with Nismo4 Interview thread***

HumbleNinja

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Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

Most plates you've spun at one time?

How do you handle having no plates?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married or have you been married already?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nismo-4

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I thought you'd never ask! Here comes the judge.

HumbleNinja said:
Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

Was referred by someone who clearly saw I sucked ass with women and really needed some improvement.

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Best advice is be a jerk and erupt with sexuality. Worst advices? Just be yourself, be her friend first, tell her how you feel, be there for her, commit to her then have sex.

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

I haven't posted, lurked on some though.

How many chicks have you slept with?

Near 20. Even that was kinda just my luck.

What was your worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Being dikteased and being told she wants to be close to me, only to have another man the next day. As for with a girlfriend, I was with this girl until I returned to Louisiana. She just wanted to be friends. Some homecoming gift!

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

Friendzoned, yes. I got out once, but it was 2 years later because the girl saw how popular I was among her sorority sisters. She ended up wanting to get some of me before someone else claimed me. Most friendzone cases, however, will result in me dropping her.

Most plates you've spun at one time?

Three.

How do you handle having no plates?

I just go out and make more money.

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

I tend to wear jeans, a high end watch knockoff (Nolex, Nomega), and some fresh shoes (Timberland, Nike, etc. Even an off brand, as long as it's clean! But I do have real expensive jewelery, but no real expensive car.

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

I tend to get mine through luck. But I usually go online for my chicks. Meeting chicks through family helps too.

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

I've definitely done it.

Do you ever see yourself getting married or have you been married already?

Hell no to both! Marriage is more beneficial to the women. Men have nothing to gain and everything to lose. And a married man can still be cheated on, if the wife gets hit on by a more attractive male.

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

I've looked at the majority of it.

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

I haven't.

Favorite So Suave posters?

PlayHer Man, Burroughs, bradd80, Mike32ct, Purefilth, Maximum Rex, Tilltheendoftime, pairplusroyalflush, Victory Unlimited, Atom Smasher, floydb25, zekko, Espi, Danger, Mauser96, Rollo Tomassi, Stagger Lee, buzzin frog, Who Dares Win, Colossus, Igetit!. Pretty much the red pill gang! I miss Kailex, Jophil, Duffdog, Razor Sharp, taiyuu otoko, Naughty Ninja, Rescue Mission, Falcon25, Kontroller X, and Iceberg.

Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

It's pretty deep, and there's a lot of men there lashing out on women. Mainly because of negative experience. But I take the time to look at all the views on these different sites.

Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

I do want to get a copy of it, but I'm looking to write my own book on women and dating.

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

It's been a great site since I've been on it, and while there may be ways to improve it, there's more ways for me to improve. Oh yeah, cut out the damn whining and pedestalization and oneitis development. Get rid of the trolls dammit!
 
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I was hoping you'd remember to spin more plates, but cool interview judge. I'm glad you were named a moderator here.
 

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Your Catch Phrase

Where did the catch phrase, "Your princess is in another castle," come from?
 

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Maximus Rex said:
Where did the catch phrase, "Your princess is in another castle," come from?
super mario bros.
at the end of every mission toad pops up in the castle and says "sorry but our princess is in another castle" ...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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switch said:
super mario bros.
at the end of every mission toad pops up in the castle and says "sorry but our princess is in another castle" ...
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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