"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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***Official Late Night with Bradd80 Interview Thread***

HumbleNinja

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Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

Most plates you've spun at one time?

How do you handle time having no plates?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, meeting/being introduced through family, work or whatever else..

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (as in not expecting the "result" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

Can the Chatzy site link be sticked for posters to BS on a more real time without having to waste their ten post limit?

How did you get chosen to become a mod for So Suave?

What goes on in the moderators corner besides chatting about who's next up for a perma-ban? Haha

Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

(Add the links to your stickied threads below for whomever hasn't seen or read them Bradd. Thanks.)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Purefilth

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I remember when I first came here, even though it was pretty late in my dating career – it was like a religious epiphany for me, having all of the mistakes I had ever made with women pointed out to me in clear, black letters. It was like I had experienced a rebirth.
Ditto :up:
 

HumbleNinja

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Bradd. Forgot one other important question I've read about a while ago that maybe you might know the answer to for posters in the Toronto area..

Is it true that Toronto is the most difficult place to pick up in your opinion and why? Is it just a myth for PUA's who've failed there? Or is it like that for most guys and why do you think so?

I've never been to Toronto but to Montreal and that place was berserk. Went with twenty jacked complete animals (not jacked at all myself) for a bachelor party there a few years back..And dudes got laid (not myself as I was in an LTR), chicks in the V.I.P pulled from the club below (college chicks) got completely nude after a few drinks dancing on the drink tables (one chick slipped and fell off her fingernail hit my eye before I had a chance to close it to catch her and I had a bloodshot red eye for a few weeks after.) Honestly it got so bad there as we went in a party bus I was semi-embarrassed at times for being American visiting in another country. Dudes got out in the middle of the day on the street and started pissing in front of everybody. Many times I seriously thought we were going to get arrested..So unless Toronto is completely different from Montreal (it was summer time though and not winter) I'm not so sure Toronto is THAT bad. It could just be PUA dudes getting blown out for being lame cornballs.
 

Bokanovsky

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HumbleNinja said:
So unless Toronto is completely different from Montreal (it was summer time though and not winter) I'm not so sure Toronto is THAT bad. It could just be PUA dudes getting blown out for being lame cornballs.
Toronto and Montreal are VERY different places. You really can't compare the two...it's like comparing Idaho to South Florida. It's not as bad as some "PUA dudes" make it sound but a lot of the negative stuff you hear about Toronto women is indeed true.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bradd where da phuck you been mate?

When you approach a chick what do you usually say and how do you escalate?

My name is Dan i hacked Solo's account


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