"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Official: I give up! I retire!

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F!DELITY

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I just cannot be bothered with it anymore! Case in point:-

Approached a girl last weekend on night out. We hung out talking for hours, and there was great vibes. We flirted etc etc. Got her number, and she said call me and we can meet in the real world.

So I called her 3 days later, brief call, chit-chat. Followed up on going out for a drink. She said yes. For the following Monday evening.

So I have had a really busy weekend - and so I dropped a text at 7pm today to confirm a definite time for tomorrow.

Over 3 hours later - NOTHING.

I can understand a girl perhaps wanting to bail on meeting a guy she barely knows - but at least have the balls to tell the person. I hate all the childish no contact sh!t.

I'm also annoyed because I feel I did everything right, no over-eager sh!t or anything like that. And yet it still seems to have ended with a suprising NC/Flake from the girl (who was not the kind I imagine being petty like that).

Anyways - it has forced me to conclude that I give up. I am not going to be ruled by women or any of their sh!t. Would be easier if I was born completely A-Sexual! *jokes*
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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georgie24

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be a cokksukker and the girls will swining off your vine like gorrilas, stop bittchin and start livin
 
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Diaforetikos

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Did you get her all hot and bothered with your flirty powers?? I'm assuming no, or you woulda got a text back real quick.

Girls who know men are interested in them, and actually invest in these men, want these men to be sexual. Asking how her day was isn't sexual. Its normal. She doesn't want that. Her friends ask her how she's doing. Potential boyfriends ask her what she's wearing.

That's everyone's problem her. You gotta flirt. You have to be sexual. Period. Now try again, but sexy.
 
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mahoney

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They want sexual yes...but they also want INTERESTING (and so should you)

A recurring theme in these posts seems to be a lot of texting or messaging thats just really boring! (tbf the girls responses seem kind of boring too often but they can only reply to what they're sent).
 
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F!DELITY said:
So I called her 3 days later, brief call, chit-chat. Followed up on going out for a drink. She said yes. For the following Monday evening.
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Shouldn't you really have arranged a time at this point, rather than texting her later with it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LoneWolf

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i've lost many women to this problem.

always go for a kiss man! even on the first date and even if they turn away. the point is just to show you want them sexually. i never go on dates without going for a kiss or/and kino. that way at least you don't fall into friendzone and they know straight off what you want from them.
 
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