"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Official date idea thread

Shivastorm_88

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I thought I'd make an official date thread, listing all the possible ideas where you could go on a date with a girl. Obviously I'll be missing a lot of ideas, so feel free to add. Hopefully this can give more ideas to some of us who sometimes lack imagination.

Here I go:

More relaxed
Park
Zoo
Walking around in the city
Movies
Coffee/beer/beverages
eating out
Shisha bar (not everyone likes that though)
Pool
Beach
Chilling by a lake
Sugar House (in Quebec! :D)
Chilling at your (or her) house
Cooking classes
Museum
Visiting architectural monuments (e.g. churches, very old historical buildings, etc.)
Carnivals
Mini golf



More action-orientated
Fencing
Arcades
Wall climbing
Hiking
Horseback riding
Racket sports
Paintball (if she's really adventurous)
Go-Kart
Bungee/sky diving (very pricey but it must be amazing)
Flying a plane (depending where you live I'm sure you can take a one day class, pricey as well)
Martial art class (if she's adventurous)
Canoeing
Water park
Amusement park
Concerts
Sport events
Bicycle
Skating
Ice skating
Skiing
Bowling


Like I said I know I'm missing many, many possibilities, but I didn't feel like thinking about it for hours. Whatever I missed, feel free to add them! I'll simply add them to the list until I can no longer edit this thread. I guess once I have a very thorough list I'll organize everything in better groups
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think one idea you left off of the action-oriented column is bowling.

It may not seem all that,but if you really get into it,it's a lot of fun.

I ALWAYS go to the same place EVERYTIME on a first date...the park.

I go there because it's free. The way I look at it is I want to make sure I like the girl before I spend any money on her. I'm not going to take a girl out,spend $50 bucks on her,then it turns out I don't even like the girl.

Or maybe I do like her,but it turns out she's not interested in me.

I can take a woman turning me down,but to get turned down...and be out 50 dollars??? Uhh,no.

I'm sorry,but WE'RE GOING TO THE PARK. :D
 

comic_relief

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I usually go for a walk around a park or campus to just see if I am interested or she is interested in me.

My ex-gf and me first date was walking around with our mutual friend where we ditched said mutual friend to get a kiss because mutual friend was interested in me.

Next, I met up with Em to watch a movie with her at her place on her bed. One thing led to another and we ended up fvcking at the end of the date.

Finally, I helped move this girl's furniture into her apartment (ex-gf's best friend) and we ended up hooking up by the end of it as well.

If I want a traditional first date, I will go with walking around a country area. Usually first dates for me, are kinda weird.

comic_relief
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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One place you left out was getting a drink. This is usually my first date, lol. I like to take em to a cool spot, where the vibe is good, good music, heck maybe even dance for kicks. Now if your really evil (and I've been at fault for this many times) it's pretty darn easy to get her wasted and see where the night takes you. Personally I'm not looking for a relationship so ending the date at my place is usually the goal. Cheers! :)
 

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Sandow said:
One place you left out was getting a drink. This is usually my first date, lol. I like to take em to a cool spot, where the vibe is good, good music, heck maybe even dance for kicks. Now if your really evil (and I've been at fault for this many times) it's pretty darn easy to get her wasted and see where the night takes you. Personally I'm not looking for a relationship so ending the date at my place is usually the goal. Cheers! :)
umm, he listed it on the first list 5th one down. But yeah, how is what you do evil, most girls know that you want her to come home with you, so if they do it's because they want to.
 

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as a competitive fencer I can tell you fencing is a lame date idea. of course if you know your **** you can make anything work for you, but you'd need to REALLY know your ****.
 
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