"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Official date idea thread

Shivastorm_88

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I thought I'd make an official date thread, listing all the possible ideas where you could go on a date with a girl. Obviously I'll be missing a lot of ideas, so feel free to add. Hopefully this can give more ideas to some of us who sometimes lack imagination.

Here I go:

More relaxed
Park
Zoo
Walking around in the city
Movies
Coffee/beer/beverages
eating out
Shisha bar (not everyone likes that though)
Pool
Beach
Chilling by a lake
Sugar House (in Quebec! :D)
Chilling at your (or her) house
Cooking classes
Museum
Visiting architectural monuments (e.g. churches, very old historical buildings, etc.)
Carnivals
Mini golf



More action-orientated
Fencing
Arcades
Wall climbing
Hiking
Horseback riding
Racket sports
Paintball (if she's really adventurous)
Go-Kart
Bungee/sky diving (very pricey but it must be amazing)
Flying a plane (depending where you live I'm sure you can take a one day class, pricey as well)
Martial art class (if she's adventurous)
Canoeing
Water park
Amusement park
Concerts
Sport events
Bicycle
Skating
Ice skating
Skiing
Bowling


Like I said I know I'm missing many, many possibilities, but I didn't feel like thinking about it for hours. Whatever I missed, feel free to add them! I'll simply add them to the list until I can no longer edit this thread. I guess once I have a very thorough list I'll organize everything in better groups
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think one idea you left off of the action-oriented column is bowling.

It may not seem all that,but if you really get into it,it's a lot of fun.

I ALWAYS go to the same place EVERYTIME on a first date...the park.

I go there because it's free. The way I look at it is I want to make sure I like the girl before I spend any money on her. I'm not going to take a girl out,spend $50 bucks on her,then it turns out I don't even like the girl.

Or maybe I do like her,but it turns out she's not interested in me.

I can take a woman turning me down,but to get turned down...and be out 50 dollars??? Uhh,no.

I'm sorry,but WE'RE GOING TO THE PARK. :D
 

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I usually go for a walk around a park or campus to just see if I am interested or she is interested in me.

My ex-gf and me first date was walking around with our mutual friend where we ditched said mutual friend to get a kiss because mutual friend was interested in me.

Next, I met up with Em to watch a movie with her at her place on her bed. One thing led to another and we ended up fvcking at the end of the date.

Finally, I helped move this girl's furniture into her apartment (ex-gf's best friend) and we ended up hooking up by the end of it as well.

If I want a traditional first date, I will go with walking around a country area. Usually first dates for me, are kinda weird.

comic_relief
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One place you left out was getting a drink. This is usually my first date, lol. I like to take em to a cool spot, where the vibe is good, good music, heck maybe even dance for kicks. Now if your really evil (and I've been at fault for this many times) it's pretty darn easy to get her wasted and see where the night takes you. Personally I'm not looking for a relationship so ending the date at my place is usually the goal. Cheers! :)
 

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Sandow said:
One place you left out was getting a drink. This is usually my first date, lol. I like to take em to a cool spot, where the vibe is good, good music, heck maybe even dance for kicks. Now if your really evil (and I've been at fault for this many times) it's pretty darn easy to get her wasted and see where the night takes you. Personally I'm not looking for a relationship so ending the date at my place is usually the goal. Cheers! :)
umm, he listed it on the first list 5th one down. But yeah, how is what you do evil, most girls know that you want her to come home with you, so if they do it's because they want to.
 

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as a competitive fencer I can tell you fencing is a lame date idea. of course if you know your **** you can make anything work for you, but you'd need to REALLY know your ****.
 
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