"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Office Game: Help me out!

schttrj

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I will be pretty precise in my story. I don't like to bore you out with a two-page saga.

I joined an office. I was introduced to some hottie by some guys. I made friends, was trying to play it cool...just chat with her through office Skype. I in fact started flirting with her, but just a bit in a very fun way.

And I liked another girl very much from the first day I saw her. I asked her Skype. Just wanted to have a chat with her. And this created the whole problem. Some guys are kinda badmouthing me behind my back to these girls. Too much confusion.

Don't worry. I still act Alpha. That's how I am anyway. But I am just getting fed up with this office politics.

What do you think should I do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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d!ckmojo

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Dudes get jealous, what can you do?
It does fvcking suck but, and can cost you a lot of pvssy.
 

schttrj

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d!ckmojo said:
Dudes get jealous, what can you do?
It does fvcking suck but, and can cost you a lot of pvssy.
Yes, seriously it sucks! Though I don't want any girl that goes by what someone else says. Still it doesn't sound too good.

The only good thing that is, I am being in the news, whether in a good or bad way!
 

Cherokee

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LOL this is so similar to my situation right now, except one of the girls got jealous and it kind of worked in my favour...

Guys who bad mouth are just jealous. Period.
 
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