"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Offer your girlfriend a date with someone else.

SamePendo

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If she talks about a guy being attractive/er

You have 2 roads to take.

One is to take the NEXT road, and next her immediately.

The other one is to take it as it comes, and move on trying to have fun with this girl. If she continues to show signs of disinterest, you NEXT her.

Why was she talking about a guy being attractive/er?

1) Unfortunately, your DJing needs further growth.

or

2) She isn't worth you.


DO NOT go and ask a guy to go out with your chick.

Why my tip was wrong.

First of all, it isn't the way Brad Pitt did it.. it was Aston(sp?) who went talking about Jen... whatever.

Second of all. Ok, maybe, it works. But on what kind of women is it working on? Would you, like a woman... being DJed by yourself... take this kind of stuff? Would you be talking about other guys being sexy/er than your date (you?). It's working on women who are most likely not interested in you in the first place, or simply it's working on women you don't want to be hanging out with.

Why not just find another one that makes you laugh instead of using some loony, unusual techniques?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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