"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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After much soul-searching I've decided to not go to college this year (University of Minnesota) and instead wait until I finish my service in the IDF (Israeli Defense Force).

I've never been to the Middle East or Israel and I'm hoping that I can find a few from the region who can tell me a bit about the culture, what to do/not to do (what are rude gestures, common phrases, etc.)

I also need fundraising ideas for a plane ticket. I can pay for it myself but it's a hefty $1,300. Do you think an ad in the paper asking for donations would suffice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why would you join the israeli defence force if you've never been to israel?

And if you can pay for it yourself, then pay for it yourself.
 

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Depending on what age you are you can travel for free on the "birth right" program. I'm not of the details or if you can travel with the program with the goal of joining the IDF.

What made you decide this? I was born there and lived until about the age of five and visit at least once every year or so, personally i would not recommend it for various reasons.
 

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Is it a requirement to join the IDF if youre Jewish or something or are you doing this just because you felt like it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'd have thought that the Israeli's would have enough soldiers to slaughter the Palestinians already.
 

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Rebound Material said:
Is it a requirement to join the IDF if youre Jewish or something or are you doing this just because you felt like it?
I would like to know the answer to this question also.

How is this any different than a Muslim joining Al-Qaeda for the purposes of jihad?

Racial superiority at its best. But maybe you have a monetary reason for joining the IDF?
 

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I see someone chimed in with the "Israel Bad, Palestine Does no Wrong" comment.

Anywho, I'm doing this because I simply want to. There is no requirement for Jews to go to Israel to serve. My heart is telling me to do it more than go to school.

Can I hear why the above Israeli does not recommend service? I'm trying to learn as much as possible before I leave.
 

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If you're referring to my post then no, that is not what I think and I am in fact part Jewish.

I have however no desire to run off to defend the "homeland" and its artificial installation into the middle east as an American controlled wildcard, please understand that being an Israeli and being Jewish are totally different things and just because one is a member of a group does not mean they should rush off to defend the skewed interests on another which pretends to be acting for you.

Religion and god do not need a home, they are with you always if you chose so, the idea that the Jews need a state is just a Christian installation for the invented "Rapture" which would have all Jews repent and turn to Christianity or go to hell anyway.

Don't be a pawn.

Edit: Stupid 10 post rule lost my last post.

To summarise what I was going to say,

When you put your life in the hands of any armed forces, they will see fit to abuse it, my grandpa was a hard working member of the British navy, who during the testing of radioactive and hydrogen bombs was driven through a mass of radioactive particles on his ship, a document was later leaked that these men were driven through this knowingly hazardous area to "test the effects of radiation on humans", they were walking around in shorts at the time, today 200 of the crew that were on his ship have died young, including him, 100 of them from various forms of cancer.

The story does not end there however, radiation scrambled his DNA but also scrambled DNA which was passed down to his children and his grandchildren (myself amongst others), the effects of this are reckoned to last 50 generations and include a hugely increased risk of birth defects and early cancer, some in my family have already suffered from this. This was a consequence of the armed forces, him placing his faith in the armed forces and him becoming a pawn for them - he put his faith in them, and they betrayed it, to the cost of him and his family.

Considering what I have to say does not make you a pawn but when you put your health and your life in the hands of someone else that does, so please reconsider, it is not in the interests of any religion for you to be fighting in wars and putting at risk other people and yourself.
 
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To do what you say, and not do what I wish; wouldn't that make me a pawn?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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itishe said:
I see someone chimed in with the "Israel Bad, Palestine Does no Wrong" comment.

Anywho, I'm doing this because I simply want to. There is no requirement for Jews to go to Israel to serve. My heart is telling me to do it more than go to school.

Can I hear why the above Israeli does not recommend service? I'm trying to learn as much as possible before I leave.
Again, I pose the same question that I did earlier to you:

How is this any different than a Muslim joining Al-Qaeda for the purposes of jihad?

Or for that matter, the Christians in Europe joining the military to fight in the crusades?

Religious wars are never justified. They are a contradiction. If your God wants you to be at peace and happy, do you think he wants to see you harm innocent people who've committed no crime but just happen to be in the wrong place at the wrong time?

Innocent or not, you can't deny that at least SOME Palestinians want peace and prosperity just as you do. Is stepping on each other's toes really what your God wanted you to do in the first place?

I tell you all this not because I hate the Jews or Israel. I tell you this so you aren't confusing your "heart" with some unjustified, intolerable, and misunderstood religious war or crusade for the protection of the established religion.

You ARE a pawn when you are influenced by your religious leaders and decide to put yourself and others in harm's way. Keep that in mind. :up:
 

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itishe said:
I see someone chimed in with the "Israel Bad, Palestine Does no Wrong" comment.

Anywho, I'm doing this because I simply want to. There is no requirement for Jews to go to Israel to serve. My heart is telling me to do it more than go to school.

Can I hear why the above Israeli does not recommend service? I'm trying to learn as much as possible before I leave.

I'm pretty sure you meant me. I really don't want to post my opinion on Israeli conflict. The whole thing is fragile and very complicated, i dont want to start a moral or political argument.

But the point is it's a heart based decision and this might not be the time to listen to your heart without really knowing about the subject. It's mandatory for israeli citizens to serve with the military, you have a choice.
 

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Rebound Material said:
Is it a requirement to join the IDF if youre Jewish or something or are you doing this just because you felt like it?
I know you weren't asking me, but it is not a requirement for jewish non israeli citizens.
 
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