off and on bs!

[montybrown]

jeez well where do i start. me and my GF can be having a great conversation then she says she has to get off the phone and she'll call me back... next thing I know I get text messges from her "Fukk you! you are a liar! You like another girl" blah blah then we get back together then everything would be great until out of NO WHERE now things just happen like she would say "You are talking to another girl aren't you!!!!!" etc etc. what the hell is wrong with her? off & on BS. She says she hates me then she says she loves me. I want to just leave her but damn I dont know what I see in her. i guess its kinda hard to just have someone completely out of your life when you have been with them for years and it feels awkward. anybody have this problem how did you deal with it?

 

[Bussey]

Hmmm... I read to the point that said GF... see the way I read this board is for people to go out and get laid... This isn't a LTR forum... Hey maybe people disagree with me... but this forum needs to be cleaned out and have the fat trimmed.

As for your problem... Dump Her, don't take her **** and move on.

 

[frivolousz21]

she is NUTS run away

 

[DinoCassanova]

I don't have this problem and never have because all throughout the past decade I have basically deliberately avoided having a g/f, or a real LTR, because I suppose I have deep-seated intimacy issues for some reason, etc. Every time I've gotten into a situation which clearly WOULD have led to a LTR, I've deliberately destroyed it on my own and "chased" her away more or less. Deliberately scared her off.

So in some respects you're lucky that you DON'T have such issues as that, and you are able to maintain a LTR (something which I have as a goal) , but clearly in other respects........this type of sh*t seems to go w/that territory so to speak. I have several close friends who have LT g/f's and they go through this kind of stuff on and off on a fairly regular basis. My thinking is that it's just the female's way of "testing" you again, making you "prove" how much you love her and want to stay w/her, etc. My advice (but you might want to be careful about taking any of MY relationship advice) would be to throw a scare into her once by calling her bluff. Say, she says you like another girl, you're a liar, blah blah blah. You respond by saying, You're right, I'm starting to think we might need some space. So just........ leave me alone......... for tonight at least. This should rattle her cage. Don't be afraid of losing her. She'll think about you all night after this I bet and want to see you again more than ever. Just let her know you won't take her BS. If nothing else it should keep the relationship spicy and lively.

~Dino

 

[DonJuanMonk]

A woman's word is just like the wind, you don't worry about it because you must understand women don't create, they don't invent, nor do they advance society as a great man would. It would take 10 of any woman to equal the greatest of a great man. A great man never takes a woman seriously unless he considers it life threatening