"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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odd vibes?

the third eye

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i have come here to learn how to become better with women, and this site deifnitely has some great advice. besides the obvious fact that im not as successful with women as many of you, i have noticed a very distinct bitterness toward women with many of the regular members here. if i become good with women, only to resent them because of the techniques and way that i learned to view them through this website, what is the ****ing point? i also get the weird sense that many people here think they can lie to themselves or something? if you actually try to lie to yourself, and keep consciously telling yourself something is true, even when you subconsciously know it isnt. that **** comes back around to bite you in the ass in different unexpected ways. i like this site and there is definitely some awesome information here but there are definitely some creepy/psychopathic vibes i get from here. what say you sosuave?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nightcrawler

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lol...good post :)

keep in mind most of the members here are rejects and never learned social skills...if any at all.

most men in the world...specially the ones that get laid, would probably laugh at most of the advice given in here.
 

TonyBaloney

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I would say that both of the first two statements are partially true. Me myself, I have had many successes with women by living on my wits and trusting my third eye... so without ss, i have had success; i am certainly no social retard. BUT it seems as though with social networking, the game has changed. Girls have had a confidence boost and men seem to scrabble around more now for scraps.

I personally came here after meeting my match - somebody who ****ed me over big time, and I am only partially recovered 6 months on, although I ve messed around with 3 girls in that time.

Some posters dont have a clue - if you want sage advice, keep an eye on the mens ages in the box. Normally mature guys say it like it is without bragging ****.

Good luck on your quest,

Tony
 

Iceberg

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the third eye said:
i have come here to learn how to become better with women, and this site deifnitely has some great advice. besides the obvious fact that im not as successful with women as many of you, i have noticed a very distinct bitterness toward women with many of the regular members here. if i become good with women, only to resent them because of the techniques and way that i learned to view them through this website, what is the ****ing point?
I think that's a fair point. A portion of the guys here are angry at women. And let's be honest....they're angry because of their own lack of success.

I look at it from the perspective that women are how they are. Anger does nothing to change that. So just learn how you can adapt yourself to appeal to what women want.


i like this site and there is definitely some awesome information here but there are definitely some creepy/psychopathic vibes i get from here. what say you sosuave?
There are definitely those types of posters here. But I wouldn't say that there are SO MANY that I'm getting a "vibe" about it.

The goal of the site is self improvement. Which is why I'm here, and not on some corny PUA gimmicks site.

Don't let a couple bad apples ruin the site for you. Skip past the nonsense and focus on the good stuff.
 

loveshogun

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the third eye said:
i like this site and there is definitely some awesome information here but there are definitely some creepy/psychopathic vibes i get from here. what say you sosuave?
Remember, young Padawan - the force can be used both for great good and great evil!

This site has a lot of first hand accounts of people's triumphs, failures, and the lessons they've learned from it all.

Some grow powerful, and use that power to "get back at all the people who held them down."

Some grow powerful, and just get over all the bad things they've been through.

What you do with the information you're given here is your business. Ultimately, it's about YOUR decisions, isn't it?

We can only make you more aware of yourself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PapiChulo

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Ha, you are either sheep or wolf.
 

nightcrawler

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Coming to a site dealing with mostly with men who struggle with women to attack them for struggling...sure you are not projecting?

100mg Paxil and 200cc's Atavan for you :eek:
Who knows dude....who knows...I'm by no means a ladies man or anything, and much like you guys, the opposite sex is a region that can bring me much frustration.

I am strictly against anti depressants btw...having taken them myself for a little while, I feel that nobody in the world should be on those things.
 
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