Odd Situation

[Yuurei]

I'm in a bit of a pickle...

Firstly I would like to say thanks to you all, after reading a lot of the articles on this site things kind of just clicked. So many things on here are things deep down I have always felt should be natural but for some reason I have oppressed them.

Basically my situation is this, I have just moved on campus and there is a month before uni starts. Unfortunately(or fortunately) I have already met a chick with quite possibly the best personality I've ever seen on a woman (and she cooks like a beast). She's attractive, but I could probably get someone more attractive. The unfortunate part is she is my flatmate and her room is literally 3 feet across from mine.

I'm almost positive she likes me, I've seen signs such as mirroring body language and eye contact, smiling a lot. I've initiated pre-kino and kino and she has responded neutrally, she is comfortable with me touching her and being near her. She keeps randomly having the urge to playfully hit me, she kind of pretends like she's going to but stops before getting halfway.

Regrettably I'm not able to be as bold as I want to be, if I make a move and she doesn't respond then things will get pretty awkward.

What do you guys think I should do?

Don't **** where I eat, move on and find someone else? Live life with no regrets and go for it?
Keep up the kino and see what happens?

How exactly does one be a DJ in this situation?

 

[Serialized3]

Since you guys are both young (I'm assuming), I bet you could get away with fooling around for at least a little while without causing problems with being flatmates. But if you get more serious, there is always that risk that things can very uncomfortable.

If I were in your situation I'd probably wait a bit, game some other girls and bring them home, and just hit it when you're close to the end of your lease. If she already likes you, all you gotta do is just get a little twisted with her and make your move.

 

[Scars]

That's the girl you keep in reserve. The girl you always playfully tease and flirt with, and lead her into thinking you're going to have sex but never do. You get her all hott and then suddenly "have to go", and it frustrates the hell out of her. As soon as she starts getting distant and is "fed up" of your sh!t, you just come back at her even harder. All the while, you are bringing other girls to your dorm and sleeping with them. She knows it too, and it frustrates her and she thinks she isn't good enough for you, but you lead her on just enough to think that she has a chance. Finally, at the end of the semester, you bang her. Either that or you wait until she gets so sexually frustrated that she rapes you. Which ever comes first.

I'm kind of joking, but at the same time I'm not. If you decide to go with the whole "don't **** where you eat" philosophy then all these actions will come naturally to you. I've been in similar situations where I couldn't fvck a certain girl because it would hurt my chances at another girl/goal I was trying to achieve. So they got put on the back burner. It just ended up frustrating the hell out of them and we would end up fvcking anyway, but it bought me A LOT of time.

You don't want to tie yourself down right away at the beginning of starting university man. You need to roam free.

Good luck.

-Scars

 

[thevilittletroll]

^^^I agree with this advice, however...i say if you are attracted to her, and want her, i say go for it. since you dont really know each other that well, this can work to your advantage. show her that you are very cool, laid back, chill, drama free guy, and that you are a non-judgemental guy. let her know that sex to you is no big deal, that its just something thats fun to do every once in a while. in college most chicks are cool with the friends with benefits situation, but you need to set it up properly. if she thinks in any way that once you have sex with her, you want to be bf & gf, it will get weird and niether of you want that. so go for it and just play it cool. and by the way, if she resists your advances, take the advice from previous post, and then get her really drunk one night.

 

[DonGorgon]

bang her but dont make her your girl ever just make her and Fbuddy and friend.

 

[Yuurei]

Thanks for all your advice guys! I'll let you know what happens