"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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odd situation in gym's class

Jay-X

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i'm 5'8, maybe 5'9 (i don't remember my height in inches, in centimetres is 175) and i'm less than 135 pounds... skinny as hell, you would think... i have very light bones, so i'm not a worryin' case, i just look a bit slim... in fact, many girls tell me that i should get some weight, in order to look very beautiful... anyway, the funny part comes now... a month ago i joined a new high school... the first gym's class, i came out of the changin' room with a tight tank top (you know, the elastic ones) and many girls complimented with me for my body and 4 guys plus the teacher (!) asked me if i do body buildin' (i swear, my shoulders and triceps stick out as hell)... that was very cool, 'cuz i've never hit a gym... here's my question: why can there be such a difference?! and, more important, how can i get rid of this difference?! i eat as much as i can, but i can't help but playin' sports all the time, so i don't bulk any... i don't really know what to do... i'd really want to look that awesome even wearin' a t-shirt with sleeves:-D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i don't play agonistically any sport (i just play soccer or basketball in the afternoons, with some friends)... i just used to do many pushups, but i thought that they would only improve my strength... well, i've been lucky:p
do u think that pushups (with big eating) would make me grow more?!
 

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for me, i thought id start bulking during holidays , so i didnt have any gym stuff, i started off at 50kg's/110pounds (yes thats ****ing thin for 5'9), i ate more, and did push up's off the bed, and i gained 5kgs thats 55kgs(122 pounds) in 2 weeks !

now i have a gym i can go to, so now i can lift weights.

so bascily, pushups will only do a small ammount to start with, but then u have to lift weights to gain more
 

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Steroids, or hard work.

And I dont condone the steroids.

Eat big, Lift hard, Read the bulking thread. What more do you want... me to do your bulk? ;)
 
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