i'm 5'8, maybe 5'9 (i don't remember my height in inches, in centimetres is 175) and i'm less than 135 pounds... skinny as hell, you would think... i have very light bones, so i'm not a worryin' case, i just look a bit slim... in fact, many girls tell me that i should get some weight, in order to look very beautiful... anyway, the funny part comes now... a month ago i joined a new high school... the first gym's class, i came out of the changin' room with a tight tank top (you know, the elastic ones) and many girls complimented with me for my body and 4 guys plus the teacher (!) asked me if i do body buildin' (i swear, my shoulders and triceps stick out as hell)... that was very cool, 'cuz i've never hit a gym... here's my question: why can there be such a difference?! and, more important, how can i get rid of this difference?! i eat as much as i can, but i can't help but playin' sports all the time, so i don't bulk any... i don't really know what to do... i'd really want to look that awesome even wearin' a t-shirt with sleeves:-D
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odd situation in gym's class
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i don't play agonistically any sport (i just play soccer or basketball in the afternoons, with some friends)... i just used to do many pushups, but i thought that they would only improve my strength... well, i've been lucky
do u think that pushups (with big eating) would make me grow more?!
do u think that pushups (with big eating) would make me grow more?!
for me, i thought id start bulking during holidays , so i didnt have any gym stuff, i started off at 50kg's/110pounds (yes thats ****ing thin for 5'9), i ate more, and did push up's off the bed, and i gained 5kgs thats 55kgs(122 pounds) in 2 weeks !
now i have a gym i can go to, so now i can lift weights.
so bascily, pushups will only do a small ammount to start with, but then u have to lift weights to gain more
now i have a gym i can go to, so now i can lift weights.
so bascily, pushups will only do a small ammount to start with, but then u have to lift weights to gain more
DJBen
Master Don Juan
Steroids, or hard work.
And I dont condone the steroids.
Eat big, Lift hard, Read the bulking thread. What more do you want... me to do your bulk?
And I dont condone the steroids.
Eat big, Lift hard, Read the bulking thread. What more do you want... me to do your bulk?