"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is the "fast lane" lifestyle really all that worth it? I.E Constant drinking,sex,drugs perhaps etc?

I have done my fair share of drinking,was even arrested for an oui last month. Smoked weed a few times,but the thing bothering me the most is this somewhat lack of sexual experience. It first started bothering me at 16,all I wanted was gf,get laid,but couldn't find the willpower to. I first had sex at 19 almost 20. And am still behind in getting it. I often get angry and bitter at those who started earlier so to say....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hmm. We seem alike. Thing is,I don't want to spend all this time making up for lost time as they say. Honestly,I would rather get married and start a family. This could stem from some other problem I have. Something like a sense of emptiness or something. Or inner game problems. Or feeling inferior due to lack of success(es).
 
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