"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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odd, behaviour from girls.

insanity

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i've seen alot of posts lately concerning looks and it's funny how yesterday i banged into a girl from work and it's the first time i seen her boyfriend.
she turned all red in the face and said hello and introduced her boyfriend and we did alittle talking.

next day when i seen her, i said to her that her boyfriend seemed like a pretty cool guy. and she said yeah, he's not usually my type if ya know what i mean.
i said no i don't quite get you? she said he's not the best looking, but he's nice.
i was thinking what a b@tch and i left.

i've heard this a few times now...maybe women are getting more into looks then we think. or maybe she's just passing her prime and settled.

what do you guys think.....imagine have a girlfriend saying to her friend "well he's not as goodlooking as so and so, but he's cool."

thats cold just cold. mind you she was no prize either!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Microphone Fiend

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she cares more about her looks then her bfs. that is why she makes excuses for him, because she thinks it makes her look bad.

IMO, you can be the ugliest guy, but if you get under a chick's skin, find out what she is all about and really connect with her, she will forget about all of that trivial stuff like looks.


Looks matter to an extent, but they get beat by str8 up game 10 outta 10 times
 

diplomatic_lies

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Unless you're butt ugly. Like the Elephant Man.
 

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I think you're talking about one girl. How you could use her to generalize all women, I don't know.
 
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