"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Octomom in the news(crazy comments)

disgustipated

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http://omg.yahoo.com/blogs/now/octomom-investigated-cps-complaints-her-home-no-plumbing-180648499.html

The article didn't go into too much detail as I would've hoped about the living conditions so I'll reserve comment. I mean CPS didn't remove any child.

But in the comments, there were numerous suggestions(with support) that the original doctor that impregnated her should be made to pay child support! And of course most of these suggestions were made by women....

I am incredulous. I mean what the..is this what women are nowadays? Please someone restore my faith a little bit and tell me they know women who would categorically disagree with assigning blame to the nearest man even remotely in the picture.

So instead of addressing that SHE made this horrible decision that may or may not be overwhelming her, they look for the nearest male scapegoat to not only pin it on and relieve her of all responsibility but also think it's okay to just let him pick up the tab too!!??

Godamm it, if I was the Doc(who appears to have had his liscence revoked after this/penalty enough btw) and they actually made me do this(i hope this never would happen) I would go off the deep end.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In the western world today:

women are considered always right
men are considered always wrong

as a man your best recourse is to be the best physically, mentally, and most important financially...to be able to extricate yourself from any entanglements :) that arise.
 
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