"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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October's Workout Log

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Alright...well...I figured I'd keep track of my progress over the summer in terms of weight lifting, just to gauge how often I am working out and what I am doing so I can look back on it later.

Right now...I'm about to be a senior in high school, and I'm on the school's cross-country and track teams. But after training inconsistently and having two ****ty seasons last year, I vowed to train more consistently this summer to make up for it.

Last year, my average time for a 3-mile race was about 19:00 or a little less. For the 800m, my average time was about a 2:09. Over the summer, I'm hoping to train for the 3-mile races, and get my times down to the 16:00s.

So, like I said before, I want to keep track of how much I am running and how often, and all of that so I can gauge my performance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So yesterday I ran for about 45 minutes, about five or six miles.

Today, I ran for about 35-40 minutes, about four miles.
 

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Yesterday, lifted shoulders with 12.5 lb weights. Bent over lateral raises (5x15), standing lateral raises (5x15), and front raises (5x15) then one superset of 10 reps each.

Today (7/14) ran for about forty minutes, a little less than five miles.
 
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Today, ran for about 30 minutes, 3x1200m intervals. Then did two 50m sprints uphill.
 

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Today (7/18), ran for about 45 minutes, about five or six miles.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yo bro, do squats and stiff legged deads. Work your glutes and hammies, they'll boost your speed.

Explosive movements.
 
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