"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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October Best Month For Dating !!!!

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Let me just say that October is by far the best month to date being as there are haunted houses everywhere. I've been on several dates this month, and haunted house after dinner gets them every time. If you guys havent thought about it, do it and watch the results. Have dinner then take tell them you want to take them somewhere...DO not tell them, by the time u finish dinner they should have enough trust for you to take them a few minutes down the road to the nearest one. They will instANLY be grabbing for your hand ..etc etc....Im interested in what u guys think other good dates, or months are. I got to say for me, this is the best date without going to far out of the way. Most of the girls havent been to a haunted house in years.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ummm U Might Wanna Read The Thread Called "halloween Hookups" About 3 Weeks Ago
 
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I have to object. This should be the "off season" - if you're just starting to get to know someone or wanting to - think about putting it on hold.

Why you ask?

Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years and Valentines Day - 4 major holidays coming up and women are a PItA about that crap.

Dinners, gifts, plans, expectations, ugh....

Personally - I hate Valentines Day - what a crock of sh!t - a made up "holiday" so we spend our money on flowers that cost 4x their normal price.

I would be very curious to hear how other guys deal with that holiday in particular.


As for relaxed dates just for fun and spinning plates - yeah this is a good time of year, it's getting cold, chilly, girls like to cuddle and be close and they love to feel the body of a strong man next to them.
 
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Personally - I hate Valentines Day - what a crock of sh!t - a made up "holiday" so we spend our money on flowers that cost 4x their normal price.

I would be very curious to hear how other guys deal with that holiday in particular.
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LOL. You guys in America have it all wrong. Valentine's Day originated as a day for Girls to get things for their men. Somehow it got screwed up for you guys there and flipped around the wrong way.
 
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Hahaha you gotta be kidding me? Man have to buy girls flowers on valentine's day? Thats the best thing i heard all week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dedication said:
Hahaha you gotta be kidding me? Man have to buy girls flowers on valentine's day? Thats the best thing i heard all week.
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Have to? I guess not...but most guys do - well, I should say I suspect most "AFCs" do - because they fear the hell they'll catch if they don't because their woman will say - "Well everyone else got flowers! Why not me?" - Ugh I've been through that too many times.
 
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