"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hello :)
There is a girl in my class that I really like.We have never talked before.We do make eye contact a lot and she usually laughs on anything funny I say in class.After class,she walks home with her girl friend in the opposite direction I walk home in.I can pretend that I need to walk in the other direction for any reason but I got 2 problems:
1-How would she react when I go up to her from her back ? it might creep her out especially that I never walked in this direction before.
2-What should I say to her friend ? Or should I just say hi to both of them then talk with the 1 I like only ?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Talk to her on the way out of class tomorrow. I don't care how bad of a day you've had. You're gonna walk up and talk to her. When she has to go, ask her for her number. It's not that hard. She may be slightly surprised when you walk up behind her, but not greatly.
 
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Thanks for the tips,really helped a lot.But what about her friend ? Should I talk to her or pretend like she isn't there ? Class is only on tuesday btw so not tomorrow :0
 
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Dude, you know the most popular social people u know, ever ignore someone in convo??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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apocolipto said:
Dude, you know the most popular social people u know, ever ignore someone in convo??
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Ok ok,you are right.Sorry but I'm trying to make it a perfect approach so I won't get rejected.I wouldn't mind it if I won't have to see this girl ever again but I will have to see her for months to come which might make things awkward if I messed up.
 
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F*ck perfect. F*ck it to hell.

Have a little fun with it, don't give a sh*t, and you'll be surprised where it takes you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Eh,my class is on tuesday.So till tuesday,I can't do much.And it's a night class,she doesn't go to my school(or at least I think so since I never ever seen her there).Don't worry,I will make my move next time no matter what especially that I'm starting to get too attached to her for some reason.If everything went fine,cool.If not,It is still not a bad thing because I will finally stop thinking about her the whole time lol :D I have been rejected once before by 1 of the few girls I approached in my life(turned out she has a bf) and it really wasn't bad at all.I actually started wondering why I liked her so much in the 1st place before even getting to know her 1st.
amohield said:
F*ck perfect. F*ck it to hell.

Have a little fun with it, don't give a sh*t, and you'll be surprised where it takes you.
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I'm trying not to overthink about it and be natural.I will try to have myself a lot of stuff to do that day which would make approaching her a small part of my plans ;)
 
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Haha good luck to you :D
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Thanks :D
Btw,today I approached a girl in 1 of my other classes.She is cute and seems friendly,also a little bit shy.I just made small talk with her,I didn't take her number as I don't want to escalate things just yet.I did that so I get less attached with the other girl and so I won't feel like it is the end of the world if she rejected me.Maybe I like the other girl more but I really can't tell yet as I don't know much about either of them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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