Dhoulmagus
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Accept who you are and obsessing over it makes you look like a wannabe tool. My friend does that and he's hated by like everybody lol.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Obsesssion with alpha male ****
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It isn't in our nature to accept what we are, we want to improve ourselves. Every moment you stay the same, not trying to better yourself in anyway, is a sign you've stopped living abit. Just because you happen to have attributes which makes you a wuss, doesn't mean you have to accept it. From the moment you're born, there is many factors that shapes the person you become, and these factors are usually random in that way that you can't control it. As soon as you realize this, and you don't change, then you'll live your life downhill from there. Things won't be better with time neither, most likely a person like that will live a life where depression is a huge part of it. So I'd rather be a tool for abit, then being blind for a life time. Props to your friend for trying to improve aswell.
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Dhoulmagus
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Tools are try hards and nobody likes them. The true alphas of the world have probably never heard of the term.