Observation

[Nn877]

Been doing some reflecting last few days and wanted to share. About three weeks ago friends and I went out to a local bar, I was being indifferent and really just enjoying my time. Approached a hb6.5 ended up number close and some kino and flirting throughout the night.

Three weeks goes by I engage small talk texts nothing too long, every other day or so. I was pretty aloof for the most part. Other day I text her ask her about her weekend, she then suggests we should grab drinks this weekend.

I ended up going out with her and one thing led to another I ended up sleeping with her. Real funny part is she mentioned I hope it's not too forward asking you for drinks initially LOL. Point of my story girls are so down now as long as you play your part. I didn't assume she would fuvk on first date but I went with the flow. I didn't game her up or do anything out the ordinary. Just was confident and funny. And now she's saying she normally doesn't do that , haha yeah right. I think we as men block ourselves and put up mental barriers. Just wanted to share and btw ex still trying to get back with me and is dating another guy lol so sad. F that noise.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Hey man good sh1t on your success.

A few things I want to note here though :

You said. "You didnt game her up"?

I just want to let you know that you did. On that date you must of done some things that made you appealing to her, which is game. She didn't pop her pvssy because you were "being yourself" You must've been acting in the ways of a DJ. The only difference is you weren't consciously aware you were applying it. Nevertheless, you still fvcked that b1tch

One more thing is, I don't think men should put up "mental barriers" as you said. I think that's how alot of us Djs become cold & jaded.

I think that "mental barriers " **** is gay anyway, kind of like the way females have b1tch shields? No?

Anyways, look back on that night and remember the things you did and possibly why they worked. Keep remembering the ways of the DJ and train your nose to smell bull**** from 3 states away.

As for your X?

You're right.

FDB.

 

[Nn877]

Smooth moves yeah I agree with you, it seems like when you don't care/put pressure on yourself women just eat it up. Top it off she also paid for several drinks. When we got back to her place I was still hesitant but she provided all green lights so I just capitalized.

I had a similar night like this as well, where the girl basically just throws herself at me and I did minimal effort and brought some "freak" out of her. Word of advice is don't get in the way of yourself. And yes FDB!

 

[SmooveMooves]

Now that's how you do it.

And I like the quote


"Don't get in the way of yourself"