Observation

[inzone50]

Is it just me or do most guys give women to much credit. All this stuff to impress her, when they try just a hard to impress us. They sit there thinking am i good enough, will he call, i am not getting many dates.

i just look at it, as you either make or break. No biggie. Just be yourself.

I look at sosauve more as self improvement, but that has nothing to do with women its about becoming a better person.

 

[Budheavy]

I look at sosauve more as self improvement, but that has nothing to do with women its about becoming a better person.

Amen. IMO the self improvement theme of this site, is what separates it from a lot of the PUA material out there, and what makes some of the information here priceless. Can't say that it doesn't have to do with women though. Women seem to be the reason why a lot of frustrated guys wind up stumbling here after all.

 

[inzone50]

You know i was never an afc to begin with, not a dj and don't consider myself one now.

i think afc is when you think you need to do something to impress a women so she will be with you.

but i'm not afraid of losing a girl. I believe you either make or break. if you break she wasn't the right one for you. untill than i just view them as fun like watching a good movie. its just a game.

i'm in a relationship now and i do ask for advice but its mostly for a different view on things....

 

[Interceptor]

inzone, you're absolutely right. Most guys try too hard to impress a beautiful woman. And most women feel all they have to do is show up.
"But..but...I'm beautiful. What more do you want??!! Now impress me, monkey!"




They sometimes feel that they're the ones who need to be iimpressed, and you have to prove yourself to her.