"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So guys, I have this 'friend'(well, he's not really) that ive known since high school. Ever since high school he's always put me down in front of the other guys, always talked sh!t to me, and would basically belittle me in front of other ppl when given the chance. Thing is he would only do this when theres other ppl around and he does it especially if theres the high school friends around us. Our relation has been the same from high school till now. I really do try to keep my cool but this fukker trully does test my limits taunting me to fire back and if I dont fire back he just keeps going. There have been numerous times when me and this guy were about to get into a fist fight(the times I lost my cool). One time I was intoxicated(bad time to fcuk with me) and this ******* had the audacity to try and punch me in the nads while I was talking to someone on the phone. I threw my phone in the other end of the room and was gonna swing at the fukker until our friend got in between. Other ppl do notice the tension between me and this guy so I know it isnt just me. I thought about it and considered that I may have been too sensitive, and it just didnt make sense. I understand making a few burns on a buddy now and then, but what this guy says just gets straight up personal and annoying because its repetitive. According to our mutual friend, the guy claims that Im the one that doesnt like him for "some reason". Seriously...anyone know ppl like this? I think these ppl are the select few that never change, no matter how much older you both get.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I was friends with two fvuckers like the guys you just described and I threw them out of my lives. I never called them and avoided all their calls until they got the point. Wish I be-friended better guys than those 2.
 

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I hate obnoxious fvckers.

You can encounter a lot of douchebags like this while traveling to Boston or New York.
 

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Upside said:
I was friends with two fvuckers like the guys you just described and I threw them out of my lives. I never called them and avoided all their calls until they got the point. Wish I be-friended better guys than those 2.
I dunno if we can even classify people like that as friends and it makes us wonder why we chose to be in their company to begin with.

Btw, I dunno if it was the fact that it was my bday celebration yesterday but he wasnt much of an ass to me last night as he usually is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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my now best friends was the guy to do this to me, but you know what? usually people make fun of the least confident in the pack, so what did i do? as i started to build up my confidence i started to not care on what he said and even started to answer back with a witty remark from time to time or even just laugh at it cuz some times is funny. i guess what im trying to say is be a man a build confidence...

dont know if this made any sense, english is my 2nd language and im kinda drunk jejeje :D
 
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