"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Obliviousness at parties

Scought

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Man...Im from the old school of just going out and having some fun. So of course i like to drink, and some here will say dont drink to much...haha...riiight...when you want to drink, you want to drink.

So usually on the weekends i go get drunk with a friend of mine. She is smokin! But we are just friends and its fun to look out for eachother and the opposite sex. She tells me what girls are digging me and which arent.

Plus it gives good social proof, and guys want to be cool with me. Problem with that is that some girls think we are together and so do some guys, so they feel like i am competition.

But this weekend some girl was really feeling me and I was drinking and totally oblvious. My friend says she was showing alot of signs but of course i miss them. She says they were way blatant and when my friend came to talk to me, the girl gave her a shady look.


Are a lot of you oblivious when girls are hitting on you? Id have such better success if I focused more, but when drinking, its easier to lighten up and sometimes you arent worried about it.

So, obliviousness sucks, but what is a guy to do?

Dont say stop drinking!
it just sucks when you know you coulda had more fun and got play!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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quest

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drink more..
the more i drink the less i find signs matter..
because the more i drink, the more i'll just create **** outa nothing..
everytime i get wasted worse so bad that i can't remember what happened (except key events) i pick up multiple girls.


only now i have a gf and i havent enjoyed getting drunk much :(
 

nan3109

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drink more, get your girl "pimp" drunk as hell, get her alone to talk about something, then put on the moves.

when girls are drunk they only think about sex (the party like ones do at least , ****in slutts!)

ask me, i know:-\
 

plaqueman

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I agree... i have alot of luck with girls when i drink but sometimes i get to drunk and make an ass out of myself... this past week i was in Cancun and had the best time of my life.. 4 out of 7 nights i was able to hook up with chicks... but i remember the first night there i was hammered and this HB9.5 was asking me if we could go back to my hotel and drink.. i had 3 more shots of tequila, went outside and puked... the next morning i woke up along :( But i had fun lol
 

sharpshooter

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i'm at the point where i'm sorta getting bored of whole drinking thing, i'm just 21 but I don't feel like I have to drink like a sponge to let loose anymore. I can have fun without that stuff now :)

besides, a sober mind and sober intincts are always better.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crank_It_Up

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I was drinking bacardi 151 with a few friends while on vacation in Aspen back in the late 70's... One friend went outside and passed out in my car, another went outside to get sick, and I fell asleep in the bar. So much for our big night out in Aspen. So I'm sleeping with my head on the table, and a girl starts tapping me on my back and asked me to dance.

To make a long story short, I spent the night at her place and my friends and I joked about our new method for picking up women, just pass out on the table.
 
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