"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Obliviousness at parties

Scought

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Man...Im from the old school of just going out and having some fun. So of course i like to drink, and some here will say dont drink to much...haha...riiight...when you want to drink, you want to drink.

So usually on the weekends i go get drunk with a friend of mine. She is smokin! But we are just friends and its fun to look out for eachother and the opposite sex. She tells me what girls are digging me and which arent.

Plus it gives good social proof, and guys want to be cool with me. Problem with that is that some girls think we are together and so do some guys, so they feel like i am competition.

But this weekend some girl was really feeling me and I was drinking and totally oblvious. My friend says she was showing alot of signs but of course i miss them. She says they were way blatant and when my friend came to talk to me, the girl gave her a shady look.


Are a lot of you oblivious when girls are hitting on you? Id have such better success if I focused more, but when drinking, its easier to lighten up and sometimes you arent worried about it.

So, obliviousness sucks, but what is a guy to do?

Dont say stop drinking!
it just sucks when you know you coulda had more fun and got play!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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quest

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drink more..
the more i drink the less i find signs matter..
because the more i drink, the more i'll just create **** outa nothing..
everytime i get wasted worse so bad that i can't remember what happened (except key events) i pick up multiple girls.


only now i have a gf and i havent enjoyed getting drunk much :(
 

nan3109

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drink more, get your girl "pimp" drunk as hell, get her alone to talk about something, then put on the moves.

when girls are drunk they only think about sex (the party like ones do at least , ****in slutts!)

ask me, i know:-\
 

plaqueman

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I agree... i have alot of luck with girls when i drink but sometimes i get to drunk and make an ass out of myself... this past week i was in Cancun and had the best time of my life.. 4 out of 7 nights i was able to hook up with chicks... but i remember the first night there i was hammered and this HB9.5 was asking me if we could go back to my hotel and drink.. i had 3 more shots of tequila, went outside and puked... the next morning i woke up along :( But i had fun lol
 

sharpshooter

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i'm at the point where i'm sorta getting bored of whole drinking thing, i'm just 21 but I don't feel like I have to drink like a sponge to let loose anymore. I can have fun without that stuff now :)

besides, a sober mind and sober intincts are always better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crank_It_Up

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I was drinking bacardi 151 with a few friends while on vacation in Aspen back in the late 70's... One friend went outside and passed out in my car, another went outside to get sick, and I fell asleep in the bar. So much for our big night out in Aspen. So I'm sleeping with my head on the table, and a girl starts tapping me on my back and asked me to dance.

To make a long story short, I spent the night at her place and my friends and I joked about our new method for picking up women, just pass out on the table.
 
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