Objective: The Mix and Mingle Maneuver - How to get the Hot Chicks at the Party!

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From The Victory Unlimited Unlimited Show Mission #46 - Objective: Invasion of the Hot Chicks!

Listener Question: How do you go about getting the hot chick at the party who KNOWS that she’s THE hot chick at the party?

Victory Unlimited's Answer:

The best way to get the hot chick at the party is to be the hot GUY at the party---who’s NOT overly impressed with the hot chick at the party. Okay, let’s roll out this battle plan step by step: You gotta deploy the Mix and Mingle Maneuver, soldier! Here’s what you do:

Walk into the party with your head up, your style up, your attitude up, and your spirits up. If the hot chick is a part of a larger group, go up to the group and engage ALL of them---especially the not-so-attractive ones---and do this first. Be friendly, be funny, be sexy, and be charismatic with all of them---but make the hot chick the last and/or least important one you talk to.


Whatever you do, DO NOT completely ignore the hot chick---because it’ll be too obvious that THAT’S what you’re doing---and your mission will be doomed from the start.

Okay, so after you’ve engaged that group for awhile, then move on to the next group. The plan is to be the man who is confident, and INDEPENDENT---proving that you’re there to enjoy yourself at the party REGARDLESS of whether or not you meet anybody.


If you notice the hot chick glancing back, flirting with you, and trying to recapture your attention-----then keep switching your attention back and forth from the new group to the hot chick----but MAKE SURE you don’t just immediately ignore everybody else and just start focusing on the hot chick "only"---Hey, you’re the hot GUY right? You ain’t THAT easy---or that easily IMPRESSED by some random hot chick, right?

But the second you notice the Hot Chick NOT continuing to give you HER attention---immediately remove YOURS and start giving it to someone else.


The key is to make HER start to give YOU her attention---and KEEP making her seek your attention first, then you reward her for seeking your attention by giving your attention BACK to her---in larger and larger chunks at a time. Remember: Hot Chicks who KNOW that they’re the hot chicks usually only appreciate something when THEY have to work for it---for a change. The objective is to do this subtly until you eventually notice her starting to consistently breach your perimeter ON PURPOSE---basically following you all around the party or club wherever you go.

You know what I’m talking about:

You go over to this area or that area----and you look up and notice that now she’s come over there too---for no apparent reason.

You step outside for a minute---and then you look up and see that she’s stepped outside too---for no apparent reason.

You’re in the middle of a conversation with someone else---and then all of a sudden you look up and she’s just joined in on the conversation too---without you asking her to.

If you see this kind of stuff starting to happen----then face it, man---yo' ass is being tracked! Man up Soldier---because you’re under surveillance!

Or, the most BLATANT sign that the Hot Chick has locked on to you:

You open her up with a little small talk and then you notice HER starting to work harder to keep the conversation going than YOU are!

All of these things---including flirtatious body language and good eye contact, will be telling you exactly when the moment has occurred when the Hot Chick has decided that YOU are officially the Hot Guy at the party that THEY want to get to know.

So once you see signs like these---better lock and load, son---because you better be GOING "in"!


Much continued RESPECT to all the Soldiers here @ of So Suave.


V.U.
 

MatureDJ

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I agree with this. Always engage everyone in the group, including the fat chicks, and don't box the hot one in. Make the hot one think that they maybe her hotness isn't all that much more than that of her fat friends - or that her lack of good personality makes her overall less attractive than her fat friend, etc.
 
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