"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Objectifying gazes study

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http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/02/110204092157.htm

Basically says that when women receive objectifying gazes, they perform worse at math. But they also mentioned this: "The objectifying gaze also increased women's, but not men's, motivation to have further interactions with their partner" Of course their conclusions are that objectification is bad for women, but obviously a boon for a man wanting to hold a chick's attention longer.

I'm going to see if I can track down the actual article.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"The objectifying gaze also increased women's, but not men's, motivation to have further interactions with their partner."

Hmmm so does this mean if you want a girl you're with to jump your bones it would be wise to parade her through a group of construction workers?

What exactly does the study mean by "partner?" Does it mean the person who's doing the "gazing" or not? If so, that's f/cking gold. Treat a girl like a ***** and she wants to spend more time with you? I could do that!
 

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Good to know my male gaze can defeat strong independent intelligent women. I feel like I have a superpower!
 

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So if you have a math test, it would behoove you to gaze lustfully at every girl in the room beforehand.
 

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I quite enjoy gazing at women objectifyingly. You'd be surprised, sometimes I get smiles in return, lol. The complete opposite of what I used to expect when I would try not to do it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't know about objectifying gazes, but locking eyes and holding it definitely does something, which is good. Something is better than nothing.
 

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Is there anything that women say that has value? This is yet another thing that they'll tell not you not to do, but when you do it, it works out great.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Is there anything that women say that has value? This is yet another thing that they'll tell not you not to do, but when you do it, it works out great.
LOL reminds me of when I was in college boning some girl who'd only had sex a few times before. We were both drunk and having a great time.

She said, "I always heard sex was worse when you're drunk." I said, "Nope, it's usually better." She said, "Another lie they told me!"
 

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"The objectifying gaze is particularly problematic for women," write authors Sarah J. Gervais, Theresa K. Vescio, and Jill Allen. "And it may lead to a vicious cycle in which women are first objectified and, as a result, underperform, confirming the notion that women's looks are more important than what they can do."
What a bunch of feminist brainwashing hogwash.

So now they found another way to blame men for making some women less intelligent then others?! well guess what!!?? all women relish at being looked at in a sexual manner (the whole "objectified" word needs to be thrown out as it portrays women as victims in which they are not).

There is a reason why hot women tend to not do well in math, its because they don't have too! they will climb up society's social ladder and cash out with their looks instead of the average/ugly looking women who are not being looked at as much and as a result have more time to themselves then being popular (which is also why most hot women don't have as much as a personality as lesser looking women who have to try something else to stay relevent with men ). Women are at their happiest when they get attention from men as opposed to knowing how to do their own taxes (if they are hot someone else can do it for them anyways).

Majority of women would prefer to walk in Kim Kardashian shoes and do what she is doing (which is apparently nothing) then to be an average looking astronaut and travel to space.
 
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