"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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o/t: why does'nt my signiture show?

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why does'nt my sig show in here? i simply put "michael" in my sig so that people know what to call me instead of -.-

anyway, i'd just like to know. is this a bug or am i not allowed to put sigs?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i really do not know the answer to that, but i think this post should be in the "anytinhg else" forum not this one.
 
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After you type your post/reply you have to 'check' the 'Show Signature: include your profile signature. Only registered users may have signatures.' checkbox.
 
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And watch out if you Edit your post, cause that checkbox goes unticked again and your signature disappears.

Well that happens to me anyway. And it's awful cause I have such a fabulous signature!
 
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