"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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O Brave New World

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DanelMadr said:
All I wanted to say was that we build civilization for a reason.
It has it's disadvantages but we are still better of living in it. Bali is living on tourists, without 1st world they would suffer.

Guys with AKs can be OK, I met a few, myself, however I wanted to point out the reason why people in 3rd world generally don't aspire for more and therefore live on minimum, which seems so non-materialistic ....when you become too rich or grow more bananas....bad guys gonna rip you off....success demotivator. And I don't blame them. Problem is when bad season comes and you have famine, thanks to lack of overproduction.
I actually agree with you Dan. Bali is not 3rd world either, it is just a pacific island paradise that is rapidly changing due to a flood of expats and tourist money. Life is easy there because the comforts of civilazation have arrived but not the expenses or social corrosion that makes us functionally poor. We should also maybe make a distinction, there is a world of difference between a poor but peaceful country and an actual failed state. We say "3rd world" but they are not equivalent.

It'll be very interesting to see how everyone reacts if this book/film actually cracks the mass consciousness.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wait_out said:
I actually agree with you Dan. Bali is not 3rd world either, it is just a pacific island paradise that is rapidly changing due to a flood of expats and tourist money. Life is easy there because the comforts of civilazation have arrived but not the expenses or social corrosion that makes us functionally poor. We should also maybe make a distinction, there is a world of difference between a poor but peaceful country and an actual failed state. We say "3rd world" but they are not equivalent.

It'll be very interesting to see how everyone reacts if this book/film actually cracks the mass consciousness.
When a state is poor, not part of civilization or not having strong bond (alliance)with it, it becomes easy prey to failed states(Eastern Europe before,post WW2) or it can easily become one....all it takes is one demagogue promising social paradise(Cuba, Venezuela etc.)

I'm not sure a movie will open eyes or do cracks. The scam seems to be on deeper level than social engineering of whatever group pressure. I believe the problem is in us. To see that we need more than movie.

Example: Who understood the movie 'Kingdom of Heaven' or even better one 'The Revolver' or 'Fight Club'? Not many. I didn't.
Who understands what Buddha or Jesus said? After 2000 years, not many. Who understands it on level that "cured" them? Even fewer. I'm certainly struggling despite all efforts.

So don't hold your breath...."enlightenment" can't be hurried by social pressure...movies or social system.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBTSE6EGD0U&feature=related
 
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